As a single, I used to dread Valentine's Day. The weeks leading up, the stores are filled with pink, red, hearts, and chocolate. I see all of these couples, and it makes me aware of just how single I am. However, Valentine's Day is about love -- all love, not just relationships. To the single people out there, Happy Single's Awareness Day! Being single is no excuse not to like this day. Use a few or all of these ways to enjoy Valentine's Day.
1. Buy some chocolate.
Who says you need a significant other to buy you a box of chocolates? Chocolate is delicious no matter who it is from.
2. Order a heart shaped pizza.
What says love more than greasy cheese and pepperoni in the shape of a heart? My college freshman roommate and I shared a heart shaped pizza and ate with no manners while watching Netflix. We had a great time, and didn’t need boyfriends to brighten the mood.
3. Treat yourself with something nice.
Happy Valentine’s Day to me! This is a perfect opportunity to treat yourself with something nice. This year, I ordered a killer pair of heels and a purse. Guys, enjoy a new watch, a bottle of cologne, or whatever suits your fancy.
4. Snuggle with a pet.
Don't stress about being single! Petting an animal reduces stress. Don't have a pet? Visit your local animal store or shelter.
5. Wine.
Is there anything else to say?6. Enjoy a movie.
Comedy, horror, thriller, or action are the best ways to go. Pop a bowl of popcorn. Try to stay away from romance. Have a good laugh or scare.
7. Pamper yourself.
Sit back and relax. Enjoy a nice hot bath with another glass of wine (or sparkling grape juice). Bath bombs or a bubble bath, and a candle sets the mood just right.
8. Hug a body pillow.
The next closest thing to a boyfriend’s or girlfriend's embrace is that of a large comfy pillow. My body pillow, Fernando, has never failed as my cuddle buddy.
9. Dress nicely.
The only person you need to impress is yourself. You don’t need a man or woman to look nice for. Looking your best will make you feel good. (Unless you’re staying in, then nothing is sexier than sweatpants).
10. Give your friends Valentines.
It’s hard to top putting a smile on the faces of people you care about. You don’t have to purchase anything extravagant, even those nostalgic Valentine’s that come with a lollipop or a small box of chocolates.
11. Spend time with someone you love.
This doesn’t mean a romantic lover. Valentine’s Day is the day of love; it isn’t exclusive to romantic relationships. Spend time with people you love. We all have single friends. Have a good girl's or guy's night. Celebrate being single together.
12. Love Yourself.
The best love is the love for yourself. Loving yourself means you’re happy being single. This is also being secure in knowing that you will have a "somebody” on the day of love in the future. In the meantime, be happy. Being content with being single is better than being insecure in any relationship. It also allows you to be the happiest in a future relationship, since you do not need to depend on another person for happiness.
