Entering college for the first time, I was given advice from my experienced friends. I really didn't take any of it too serious as I never experienced the circumstances that they warned me about. But, concluding my first semester in college, I've now learned a ton, academically and socially. I've also had plenty of time to reflect on myself.
1. Not Everyone Has Good Intentions, So Don't Openly Trust
Everyone entering their first year of college is completely open to meeting new people. However, not all of them stay for the best reasons, so stay on guard until you know who they are.
2. Put Yourself Out There
Be open to joining clubs, picking up new interests, and exploring your school's events. These are the places where you can meet new people and create bonds with other students outside of your major and dorm building.
3. Work Smart, Not Hard
One of my professors gave me this advice. Completing all of your homework can be difficult, especially if assignments and projects pile up. For the most part, your professors just want to know that you understand the information that they have taught you. If you allocate a set amount of time for each assignment, you will be able to properly manage your schedule which makes your workload seem more achievable. Also, remember to use an agenda so that you do not forget to complete any of your work.
4. Call Your Parents
You don't have to talk to them every single day, but staying in contact with them will ensure that college was the best choice... And ensure them that you are still alive.
5. Don't Lose Track Of Who You Are
College is a huge adjustment for freshmen, so keep in mind who you are and your values. Getting caught up in new social environments might cause you to loose track of yourself, but it is never too late to find new people who you are yourself with.
6. It's Okay To Ask for Help
Talking to your professors or TA's is okay. They are there to answer questions and clarify assignments. It might be intimidating, but their job is to make sure you succeed. Also, by connecting with professors, you have a networking opportunity for professionals in your field.
7. Have Fun, But Not Too Much Fun
Yes, you're in a great social environment, but remember why you're in college.
8. Be Able To Separate Weekdays And Weekends
This goes with number 7, you're at college to get an educational degree, not a degree in drinking.
9. Don't Be Afraid To Say No
You do not need to go out every night of the weekend, or even every weekend. Nobody looks at you differently if you decide to stay in one night. Especially if you are drowning in homework, sometimes the best thing to do is to just stay in and work.
10. It's Completely Okay To Miss Home
Most likely, your roommates/friends are feeling the same way. Look at old pictures, call your family, or text your friends from home if you're feeling down. Sometimes a complete distraction might help too. Go to the mall or watch a movie to get rid of the homesickness.
11. It's Okay To Be Alone
Locking yourself in your room all day and ordering pizza delivery is okay. You don't always have to be surrounded by people. Sometimes,the only answer is to lay in bed all day and binge watch Netflix.
