If you sit down and think about it… you could come up with a list that is a mile long. That should be one of your first signs.

Falling in love is such a tricky thing. Love can be the greatest thing and the awful thing that you have ever felt. When love starts to fade away and someone doesn’t want it to work any more things will start to fall apart fast. One person can only love enough for the both of you for so long.

So let this be a sign to you. Sit down and make a list. How easy is it for you to come up with the things that need to change? How long did it take you? You’ll soon start to see a trend. You’ll notice more and more that it’s only you who is trying to save the relationship. If any of these 11 reasons pop up.

It’s time to start making moves for yourself, by yourself. I promise you can do it. It's not going to be easy but as soon as you make your first steps, you'll soon start to realize that you deserve so much more.

1. It’s always you who initiates the conversation or plans to see each other.

2. You’re lucky if you get a text back.

3. If they are always taking advantage of you always being there for them.

4. Somehow you always end up apologizing.

5. If they cancel plans often or just never follow through.

6. You have to be careful with what you say because you don’t want to make them mad.

7. If they make talking to you seem like a chore.

8. Somehow everything is always your fault.

9. There is always an excuse.

10. They don’t recognize the amount of work you put in.

11. If they find something wrong with everything that you do.