Whether you have a boyfriend, girlfriend or are engaged to someone in the armed forces you know how hard it is to not be with them and to miss them day in and day out. But behind every service man and woman there is an even stronger support system, and there are struggles to match.
1. The Distance Is Rough
Whether you are states away or in a different country the distance is the hardest part.
2. You Don't Always Hear From Them
During their time in Basic Training you won't hear from them for the duration of their time. Most Basic Training times last for up to eight weeks and even after that when they go to their next location there will be days that you don't hear from them because they are so busy.
3. You Can't Wait For Them To Get Back
Lets face it, we all count down the days till they get back in some way or another. And we can't wait for them to get back so you both can talk about the things that the other has missed and make up for lost time spent apart.
4. Texting And Calling Isn't Enough
As if the distance and time difference isn't enough texting and calling or if you're old fashioned, writing letters, isn't enough. You wish that you could talk to them for much longer but you understand that they have duties that they need to uphold and things they need to accomplish.
5. You Constantly Worry
We all worry about different things during our significant others deployment, whether it be safety or whether they are still healthy and having a good time, one thing is for sure and that is that we all worry. But it's normal, it just means you care.
6. Any Communication Makes You Happy
Back before cell phones they used letters to communicate, whether you still do becuase of phone issues or becuase you think it is romantic you agree that any time you get to talk is a great day. Not only do you get to hear how things are going but you get a big goofy grin across your face while you are reading.
7. You Are Proud Of Them
When you first found out they were going into the Armed Forces you were scared but you couldn't have been more proud. There were times you didn't want them to leave but you couldn't be more proud of who you are choosing to stand behind in this.
8. You Wouldn't Change Your Life For Anything
Sure, you could have someone else who didn't chose this life but where's the fun in that. You love your life and everyone in it, from your parents to your significant other.
9. You Love Them Wholeheartedly
If you are like me you tell them that you love them every time that you talk. So it's no surprise that they know it. And in your mind there is no number of times to tell them that you love them before you need to stop.
10. You Learn To Appreciate Your Time Together
From day one to the last together you learn to appreciate your time spent together because you know that it will be a while before you get to be with each other for a while. And you can't wait for them to get back, you sometimes may want them with you now but you understand that what they are doing is important and you love that they answered this nations call and you can call them yours. So no matter what situation you are in no matter where you are, don't forget that you are not alone in this and that there is a bright side to everything and they won't be gone long.
