It's been one week and I'm already loving San Diego State. Getting to say with confidence that I made the right choice in picking my school is so awesome. I've already learned a lot being here, so here are ten of the many things I've learned during my first week of freshman year!
1. Packing up your life at home might be stressful, but moving in is beyond fun.
Everyone talks about how stressful move in day was. And sure, there are elements of it that did cause stress -- but, it was a whole lot of fun. Personalizing your space and making something so bland become your living space for the year is really cool. And, if you get to do it with your whole family, it's an even better experience. Enjoy it, and above all else, let your parents be involved in making the room comfy for you -- they'll appreciate it.
2. Saying goodbye to your family DOES suck, but you'll find that your bonds strengthen with them.
I was absolutely torn up when I had to say goodbye to my parents, little brother and little sister. It sucked. But now that I'm gone, I talk to them all the time. Even though I'm just as busy as I was at home, my mom and I are always texting, my dad and I talk more now, and our bonds are strengthened by the distance. It's great.
3. Proper planning is crucial.
Getting to class on time is one thing. It's likely that you'll be biking or walking to class, so plan accordingly. But more than that, planning out the time it'll take you to not only get to class and study but eat and sleep and be social seems to be more of a challenge. And even though it's a balancing act, it's fun.
4. Sometimes you'll feel like everyone around you has a friend group already and you're hanging out alone.
There were many times where I didn't feel super close with my roommate and noticed so many people walking in packs in the halls, already seeming to have a friend group. The reality is that sometimes making friends is easier for some people, and sometimes forced friendships become a way of surviving the social scene. For me, I prefer to enjoy the people I'm meeting and to be okay adventuring on my own if it comes down to it. But the truth is, the moment you really start to wonder why everyone has a squad already is right about when you'll find yours, and it's the best.
5. The first few days of class are exciting but overwhelming.
College is nothing like high school, obviously. But getting into the routine of classes and schoolwork is a bit of a challenge. Teachers are all very different when it comes to policies and such. Having a schedule that alternates days is great, but also takes organization when it comes to getting your work done on time. There is a lot of information to keep track of and more expectations. You have to hold yourself to the standard that you want to pursue your education with. And in doing so, you'll see that you're being taught by some amazing people and learning about amazing things.
6. Being alone is OK.
Eating by yourself, walking to class alone, or spending the night in your room alone is absolutely okay. You can be alone and not be lonely, and in fact, I think it's important during such a time of change and transition to being able to take time for yourself. It's all an adjustment.
7. If you have a friend from your high school at school with you, make the most of it.
I went to college thinking that even though two of my best friends happened to be going to the same school, the distance would be okay because college is about finding new people to spend time with and making new friends. And while that is SO true, it's such a luxury to have some of your closest friends from home on campus. It's a comfort during the tougher days and when you need a taste of something familiar, they're great to have around. If you get that lucky, take advantage of it.
8. Starting off with good habits and routines is important.
Keeping yourself on track is the best way to start college off. Keeping your room clean, doing your laundry, and eating healthy will kick you off to a great start. Sleep and good nutrition are so important, as are taking care of your mental health. And if you end up getting sick, take care of yourself above all else. In general, making good choices and keeping your priorities in line is the best way to start your first semester.
9. Homesickness is a tough reality, but it's more complicated now.
You will absolutely miss home, but that's okay. You'll miss parts of your hometown, your family especially, your friends, and even random things back home. But the silver lining in all of that is a new sense of appreciation you will find for all of the people back home, especially family. I have so much gratitude for my support system back home for getting me to this point, especially to my parents and siblings.
10. Discovering yourself and your goals, passions, likes, and dislikes are easier and more exciting than ever.
College is awesome. There are ups, downs, and adventures. I've only been here for a week and I've already learned so much about myself and the person I want to work every day to become. Embrace the journey and make the most of it; that's what I'm going to try to do this year.
