10 Things I Learned Coming From A Small, All-Girls High School

10 Things I Learned Coming From A Small, All-Girls High School

No matter how much you hate to admit it, you're gonna go back.

Coming from a school where my graduating class was about 72 girls, I have learned that these girls become your family.

1) Uniforms can be great!

Yes, the skirt may be itchy and the blazer might not fit right. But, rolling out of bed in the morning without a care in the world is the best feeling!

2) A bare face is the best face.

There's no one to impress when you're surrounded by your girls. No need to put on a full face, cover up pimples, or even bother brushing your hair. No one judges you because they all know exactly how you feel.

3) Your opinion matters!

Don't be afraid to speak your mind! Your opinion is always important.

4) Establishing relationships with your teachers is key.

They can be your best friends, plus it always helps to have someone to turn to when school starts to become too much.

5) Art classes senior year are also a BIG KEY.

With all the rush to get things done on time before graduation, having that one class that melts the stress away is always important. I found that art classes really helped me forget about the tests, college applications, and papers for an hour.

6) News travels fast.

Do not do anything you don't want your whole grade to eventually find out about.

7) Perfecting the messy bun.

We all know what I'm talking about and just how important this is. It's the lazy hairstyle but, when perfected, is a fashion asset.

8) Graduation will be harder than you think.

The four most awkward years of your life were spent with these girls. They have become your family. No matter how many times you wished to be out of that school, when you're finally waiting for your name to be called up onto the stage, you realize these were the best four years of your life.

9) Always go back and visit. They miss you more than you'd think.

No matter how much you could not wait to get out of that small high school and see the world, your teachers will miss you long after you miss them. Going back to visit some of your favorite teachers to reminisce will always make their day (and yours!) a little brighter.

10) Returning makes you feel 20 years older than you are

Walking down the hallways is always hard when you start to remember the spots you used to hang out in or where you knew was the safest place to peak a look at your cell phone. When you go back and walk down those same halls you once 'ruled,' you see it all through a new perspective and somehow, high school feels like it was centuries ago. Although you will all go your separate ways, they will always be family.

Cover Image Credit: Mount Saint Dominic Academy

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Margliotti

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