As my freshman year of college comes to a close, I look back and it seems like just yesterday my parents said “see you later,” as I began my next journey. My freshman year of college was truly a unique learning experience and I cannot wait to see what the rest of my college years bring.
1. It’s okay not to know.
It’s okay not to have a declared major; it’s okay not to know what career path you want to follow; it’s okay not to know what your passion is; you get the point. In high school, everyone demanded answers, but in reality, we are young developing adults. The purpose of college is to find yourself and your passions.
2. If you didn’t have to try in high school, you do now.
In high school most students can get by just fine with minimal effort; say goodbye to those days! You MUST study to excel in any class; chances are you’ll spend more time completing work outside of class than you will in class.
3. Not all friends last.
Sure, you and your high school squad vowed to stay in touch and meet up on the weekends, but people make new friends and develop new interests. You might stay in touch with a few close friends from high school, but chances are you won’t hear from many of your old pals.
4. Nothing compares to home cooked food.
The variety in the cafeteria seems real dandy at first, until the variety is the same EVERY SINGLE DAY. Nothing compares to dinner at home, seriously.
5. You think you won’t miss your siblings, but you will.
Now you’re thinking “whatever,” but for real, you’ll miss them. It’s a strange thing that the people who annoy us the most can be so meaningful.
6. Free time does exist.
It’s well known that college students are in class far less than high school students; inevitably, you’ll have more free time. This is especially true freshman year. You’ll bore yourself to death if you do nothing but go to class.
7. Join groups on campus.
Everyone says it, but it’s 100% accurate. Involvement on campus will lead to connections, opportunities and endless fun.
8. Get a job.
While jobs often suck, being in debt sucks more. College is expensive and, sure, you may have gotten $20,000 in scholarships this year, but you certainly aren’t going to get $20,000 in scholarships every year. Plus if you work on campus, you’ll meet other students and will get to learn more about your university.
9. Take advantage of free things on campus.
Go to those free fitness classes; no one will judge you if you fall over in an attempt to hold tree pose. Visit your advisor; advisors know a lot about the university, which classes will be best for you and they even have information about jobs and internships. Free printing is almost as good as free food; some offices on campus have free printing, so don’t go out and spend $50 on a new printer and then have to spend another $30 on ink every month.
10. Have fun!
If you thought high school flew by, just wait, your first year of college will be over before you know it. So go hiking, have bon fires, meet new people and don’t forget to study, but most of all discover yourself.
