10 Things This Semester Has Taught Me

10 Things This Semester Has Taught Me

Life lessons sometimes happen outside of the classroom.

This semester has been one of the hardest semesters that I have been through. From the beginning phases of joy and 'I can do this', to the depressing realization that my chemistry class is only a level-100, to the passive-aggressive coping method of writing about it. There have been ups and downs, like every semester, but for some reason, I just have the end-of-semester blues a little bit more now that I have before. I cannot wait for summer to come (hello freedom!), but I am glad that I am on this journey this semester - it has taught me many life lessons, some big and some small, but most importantly, these are the ten things that this semester taught me, and I will not soon be forgetting.

1. A level-100 class can be just as stressful as a level-300 class.

I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have sat and cried over my chemistry homework, or how hard it is to study for General Chemistry II (CHEM-122). I think that my level-300 biology classes are less stressful than this class.

2. It is so easy to make friends when you aren't trying to impress anyone.

It doesn't take much to find your tribe. I learned that by being myself, the friends naturally came, and now I have a support system here that I wouldn't trade for the world. <3

3. Always take advantage of reserving a study room in the library.

If you can reserve the study room in your library - do it. It keeps you out of your bed, and gives you a reason to sit down and study. Invite your friends to come too, even if they aren't studying the same thing. A few hours per week can drastically change your exam scores.

4. Finding your support system is essential.

I learned that through it all, I'll never have to go it alone.

5. Check the weather before leaving for school.

sometimes, the weather likes to play games with our hearts (cue Backstreet Boys), and sometimes, you just end up walking out of the apartment wearing shorts. When it's 40 degrees outside.

6. A pea coat will not fool anyone into thinking you have your sh*t together.

Nothing, especially not a pea coat, will make you look like you have everything all together. And that's okay. Who has anything together at this point in the semester, anyway? Additionally, your pea coat will not make you look like you have your life together if it doesn't have a hood and you get caught in the rain. Just sayin'.

7. Keep a case on your phone.

Do I have to explain this one? All it takes is one fateful trip to Starbucks (hard tile floors)

8. Keep tabs on your wallet.

My catch phrases: Have you seen my wallet? Where is my wallet? Do you remember where I put my wallet? Bonus: Where are my keys?

9. Have AAA on speed dial.

Thankfully, my mom let me use her AAA account this semester. I had accidentally locked my keys in my trunk (don't ask me how, the world may never know). Otherwise, I'm not sure what I would've done other than sit in Emily's apartment and cry all night about it.

10. If you go to Starbucks early before class to study, you might have your life together.

Even if you don't actually study, at least you have a good cup of coffee, right?

11. BONUS: Speak up.

I thought that I had failed an exam. With a 57% to be exact. Heartbroken, I wrote it off as a consequence of taking an exam when I was sick (luckily, we get to retake exams at the end of the semester in this class). I got my test back, and I actually got a 75%, it was just written backwards. Speaking up isn't easy, but it's a grade (and life) saver!

Cover Image Credit: Peyton Reynolds

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To The Boy Who Will Love Me Next

If you can't understand these few things, leave before things get too involved

To the boy that will love me next, I need you to know and understand things about me and my past. The things I have been though not only have shaped the person I’ve become, but also sometimes controls my life. In the past I’ve been used, abused, and taken for granted, and I want something real this time. The guys before you were just boys; they didn’t know how to treat me until it was too late. They didn’t understand how to love me, until I broke my own heart. Before you truly decide to love me I want you to understand these things.

When I tell you something, please listen.

I’m my own person, I want to be loved a certain way. If I ask you to come over and watch movies with me please do it, if I ask for you to leave me alone for a few hours because it’s a girl’s night please do it. I don’t just say things to hear my own voice, I say things to you because it’s important to my life and the way I want to be loved. I’m not a needy person when it comes to being loved and cared for, but I do ask for you to do the small things that I am say.

Forgive my past.

My past is not a pretty brick road, it is a highway that has a bunch of potholes and cracks in it. I have a lot of baggage, and most of it you won’t understand. But don’t let my past decided whether you want to love me or not. My past has helped form who I am today, but it does not define who I am. My past experiences might try and make an appearance every once in a while, but I will not go back to that person I once was, I will not return to all that hurt I once went though. When I say those things, I’m telling the complete and honest truth. I relive my past every day, somethings haunt me and somethings are good reminds. But for you to love me, I need you to accept my past, present and future.

I’m just another bro to the other guys.

I have always hung out with boys, I don’t fit in with the girl groups. I have 10 close girlfriends, but the majority of my friends are guy, but don’t let this scare you. If I wanted to be with one of my guy friends I would already be with him, and if you haven’t noticed I don’t want them because I’m with you. I will not lose my friendships with all my guy friends to be able to stay with you. I will not cut off ties because you don’t like my guy friends. I have lost too many buddies because of my ex-boyfriends and I promised myself I wouldn’t do that again. If you don’t like how many guy friends I have you can leave now. Don’t bother trying to date me if you can accept the fact I’m just another bro.

I might be a badass, but I actually have a big heart.

To a lot of people I come off to be a very crazy and wild girl. I will agree I can be crazy and wild, but I’m more than that. I’m independent, caring, responsible, understanding, forgiving, and so such more type of woman. Many people think that I’m a badass because I don’t take any negatively from anyone. Just like we learned when we were younger, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” Most people can’t do that in today’s world, so I stick up for myself and my friends. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me, or their option on how I live my life. The only thing I care about is being able to make myself happy. Even though I’m an independent woman, understand that I do have a big heart. Honesty when I truly care for someone I will do just about anything they ask, but don’t take advantage of this. Once you take advantage of this part of me, all respect will be lost for you.

I’m hard to love.

Sometimes I want to be cuddle and get attention, and sometimes I don’t want you to talk to me for a couple hours. Sometimes I want you to take me out for a nice meal, but sometimes I want a home cooked meal. Every day is different for me, sometimes I change my mind every hour. My mood swings are terrible on certain days, and on those days you should probably just ignore me. I’m not easy to love, so you’ll either be willing to find a way to love me, or you’ll walk out like so many others have.

I’m scared.

I’m scared to love someone again. I’ve been hurt, heartbroken, and beat to the ground in my past relationships. I want to believe you are different, I want to hope things will truly work out, but every relationship has always ended up the same way. I’m scared to trust someone, put my whole heart into them, just to be left and heartbroken again. I sick and tired of putting my whole body and soul into someone for them to just leave when it is convenient for them. If you want to love me, understand it won’t be easy for me to love you back.

When “I’m done.”

When I say “I’m done” I honestly don’t mean that I’m done. When I say that it means I need and want you to fight for me, show me why you want to be with me. I need you to prove that I’m worth it and there’s no one else but me. If I was truly done, I would just walk away, and not come back. So if I ever tell you, “I’m done,” tell me all the reasons why I’m truly not done.

For the boy who will love me next, the work is cut out for you, you just have to be willing to do it. I’m not like other girls, I am my own person, and I will need to be treated as such. For the boy that will love me next, don’t bother with me unless you really want to be with me. I don’t have time to waste on you if you aren’t going to try and make something out of us. To the boy who will love me next, the last thing I would like to say is good luck, I have faith in you.

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