As I speak from experience, I'm going to name 10 reasons why you shouldn't continue your mediocre relationship of 1 plus years. Take my word and run now, or learn from your own experience and thank me later.
1. He doesn't know your favorite color. YES. You heard it right. Now before some of you go all, that doesn't matter to me. Think about what I really just said. He doesn't know ANYTHING about you, so much that he doesn't even know something as simple as your favorite color. He doesn't know your deepest secrets, your fears, your goals, etc.
2. You know everything about him, but not because he tells you. So unlike number 1, you know him like he back of your hand, but only because of ease dropping, talking to his friends and family, or simple finding out through social media. He doesn't confide in you. He doesn't show his emotions. When he is having a bad day, you are the last to know why. When he is happy, you aren't the first person he calls.
3. He puts you down no matter what you do. You work two part time jobs just to support him. You get home from work exhausted and are laying in bed. He gets home and sees you in bed, and screams at you for leaving the house dirty. You do NOTHING all day while he works his butt off, you're so lazy!
4. You never get alone time, his friends are ALWAYS invited. You plan a date night once a month, where you pay, but somehow his bestfriend gets invited along the way. You plan a movie night at home when his best friend is at work, but he constantly is texting and calling him, snap chatting him, to make sure he isn't missing anything.
5. There is no more physical touch. You try to hold his hand in public, he pushes you away. You are embarrassing him. Every day you get a quick peck before bed. You can't remember the last time he gave you a huge. And cuddling isn't an option unless it's for one thing.
6. You never laugh together. Everything with him is either a fight or nothing. You try to talk to him and the conversation ends quickly. The playfulness is gone. You're annoying him.
7. He only thinks about himself. You spend your whole paycheck on the bills, lending him money, and buying him food and other things. The next month you're broke, but he isn't. The favors aren't returned. Why would he owe you? He gets food on the way home from work, but never even calls you. You make yourself your own dinner.
8. Romance is dead, well at least yours is. The I love you's are just habit. No cute notes or gestures are there, not even on your two year anniversary.
9. You feel like a roommate. You just live there to pay the bills. If you were gone for the day he wouldn't even notice. He forgets where you even said you were going. Are you even there?
10. It feels like a competition. You block girls from his phone hoping he forgets they exist. No, not the occasionally psycho ex, but every girl that is pretty. You know he has wondering eyes, you just want to be enough. You know he is into other girls, but for some reason he keeps you hanging.
It almost feels like a game of how can I make her leave me first. I know my next move before I even make it. It's painful. You sob every night as he stares at you emotionless. You try everything, but it doesn't matter. He already made his mind up. You hope he will change, but hope runs out.
Girl, tell him bye bye bye!
