People tend to stick to their own age group when looking for friendship for many reasons. Friends your age tend to have common interests, are in the same place in life, and experience similar struggles. However, having a friend with a generational gap can prove to be one of your most meaningful friendships. You get to learn from someone older and wiser than you and even though you may differ in age, you still have numerous aspects in both of your lives to connect with. Here is a list of reasons how having older friends can be a major benefit in your life.
1.They are less judgmental.
Because they most likely made the same mistakes you are making when they were younger, they realize you still have a lot of growing to do. Because of this, you can pretty much tell them anything without worrying about it damaging their opinion of you.
2.They spoil you.
They see you as a younger sibling at times and want to make sure you are taken care of. Whether it means driving you around or giving you groceries,they always make you feel pampered.
3.They cook for you.
And nearly every time you visit their home they insist you stay for dinner!
4. Different view points.
Your age difference will cause the two of you to disagree on some topics, but it is always wise to consider the opinions of others, especially when they are more experienced in life than you.
5.If they have a kid, you become an honorary aunt or uncle.
Their kids are so much fun to chill with, but you get to return them when they start getting out of control because they aren't actually yours!
6.They give you the best advice.
Seeing as they are further ahead in life from you, they have most likely already lived through some of your issues and can use their experience to help you through your youthful woos.
7.They buy you booze.
Who needs an ID when you have someone over 21 to get the booze for you!
8.Less drama.
At their age, they no longer have the time or the desire to entertain pettiness. A friendship with them means steering clear of petty arguments or comments.
9.They parent you when you need it.
It's like having two moms minus the nagging!
10. They are the perfect role model.
Because at the end of the day, they are always someone you can admire and look up to.
