10 Reasons Why Your Cousins Are Your Built-In Best Friends

10 Reasons Why Your Cousins Are Your Built-In Best Friends

We are cousins, we are family, we are best friends

My cousins are both younger than me, but that doesn’t change anything. My cousins are so much fun to be with and I love spending time with them. No matter what we do, we always have a blast. I am so lucky to have them, and they will always be something I'm grateful for.

Cousins are built in-best friends and there are many reasons why.

1.You are alike

We share common interests and enjoy the same activities, which makes spending time together that much more fun.

2.You know exactly what to do to make each other laugh or smile

When you’re feeling down or upset, your cousins are always there to turn your frown upside down. They always know what to do to make you laugh and how to cheer you up.

3. You get to do things you enjoy, such as beach days together

We all love beach days and get to enjoy them together, which makes the beach even better.

4. You can act yourself around your cousins

You can be as crazy and hyper as you want, and chances are they will act the same.

5. They put up with your weird and craziness

Typically, we are crazy when we are all together and always have a blast. But, if I’m being too crazy, they still put up with me.

6. They keep your secrets

We tell each other secrets, and we know we can always trust one another.

7. Family vacations together

I will never forget the time we went away for a night and stayed up late singing, dancing and laughing till our stomachs hurt.

8. You have your inside jokes

The things we have come up with that only we understand. Other people question what we are talking about!

9. You can be yourself

You don’t have to worry about impressing them, or acting differently in front of them. You can just be yourself, and they will still love you for who you are.

10. You love each other unconditionally

We are cousins, we are family, we are best friends. We will always have that special bond that could never be replaced. Our love for each other is something I will always be thankful for.

Cover Image Credit: Elizabeth Lincoln

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The Thank You My Dad Deserves

While our moms are always the heroes, our dads deserve some credit, too.

Dear Dad,

You’ve gone a really long time without being thanked. I'm not talking about thanks for things like opening the Gatorade bottle I couldn't or checking my tires when my car’s maintenance light is flashing, but rather the thanks I owe you for shaping me into the person I am today.

Thank you for teaching me what I deserve and for not letting me settle for anything less.

While the whole world was telling me I wasn’t good enough, you were there to tell me I was. Whether this was with boys, a friend, or anything else, you always built my confidence to a place I couldn’t build it to on my own. You showed me what my great qualities were and helped me feel unique. But most of all, you never let me settle for anything less than what I deserved, even when I wanted to. Without you, I wouldn’t be nearly as ambitious, outgoing or strong.

Thank you for giving me someone to make proud.

It’s hard to work hard when it’s just for myself, but so easy when it’s for you. All through school, nothing made me happier than getting a good grade back because I knew I got to come home and tell you. With everything I do, you give me a purpose.

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Thank you for showing me what selflessness looks like.

You are the prime example of what putting your family first looks like. If me wanting something means that you can’t get what you want, you’ll always sacrifice. From wearing the same t-shirts you’ve had since I was in elementary school so I could buy the new clothes I wanted, to not going out with your friends so you could come to my shows, you never made a decision without your family at the forefront of your mind. If there is one quality you have that I look up to you for the most, it’s your ability to completely put your needs aside and focus entirely on the wants of others.

Thank you for being the voice in the back of my head that shows me wrong from right.

Even though many of your dad-isms like “always wear a seatbelt” easily get old, whenever I’m in a situation and can’t decide if what I’m doing is right or wrong, I always can hear you in the back of my head pointing me in the right direction. While I may not boost your ego often enough by telling you you’re always right, you are.

Thank you for being real with me when nobody else will.

Being your child hasn’t always been full of happiness and encouragement, but that’s what makes you such an integral part of my life. Rather than sugarcoating things and always telling me I was the perfect child, you called me out when I was wrong. But what separates you from other dads is that instead of just knocking me down, you helped me improve. You helped me figure out my faults and stood by me every step of the way as I worked to fix them.

Most of all, thank you for showing me what a great man looks like.

I know that marriage may seem very far down the road, but I just want you to know that whoever the guy I marry is, I know he’ll be right because I have an amazing guy to compare him to. I know you’re not perfect (nobody is), but you’ve raised me in a such a way that I couldn’t imagine my kids being raised any differently. Finding a guy with your heart, drive, and generosity will be tough, but I know it will be worth it.

Dad, you’re more than just my parent, but my best friend. You’re there for me like nobody else is and I couldn’t imagine being where I am now without you.

Love you forever,

Your little girl

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A Letter To My Younger Cousins Before I Leave For College

Seriously, look how cute they are!


Starting at the time I am writing this letter, I have 15 days until I leave for college. Meaning, I will not see you cuties until at least Thanksgiving. I know I don't get to see you a lot as it is, but knowing there is no family party we will all be at together until Thanksgiving is just plain sad. What am I going to do without seeing your infectious smiles and your silly performances? Even though I will not be around to see those things, promise me you will keep them up for the family to enjoy! I hope you like the small little blurbs I have included for each of you.

Summer, you never cease to amaze me! You are so beyond beautiful and I can not believe you are almost as tall as me at 11 years old. You shine at everything you do, whether it is scoring goals on the soccer field, running up and down the basketball court, or horseback riding with all the gorgeous horses. While I'm gone, stay your sassy little precious self and never let anyone dull your sparkle! (p.s. feel free to text or call me whenever you want!)

Hudsen, you are by far the coolest 10-year old I know! Your football skills are out of this world and you are such an incredible artist, it is mind-blowing. I have saved every drawing you and your siblings have made for me and I can not wait to hang my favorite shark one up in my dorm. I love talking about all things sharks and Star Wars with you and I love that you can talk about them for HOURS! Don't break too many hearts in 5th grade, kiddo.

Max, how do I even begin??? Your hugs could bring world peace! Soon enough though, you're going to be the one picking me up instead because you are growing up too darn fast. You are the most athletic 6-year old I have ever met and you and your brother always have the coolest hairstyles. Not to mention the skateboard skills you acquired in literally one day, very impressive! Every time your mom sends a picture of you, my heart melts into a puddle of goo. That cute little smile can melt ANYONE'S heart!!! I'm already counting down the days until I get my "Max hug" on Thanksgiving. Keep your radiant energy!

I can't thank you enough for all the smiles you have put on my face. I will always remembered the night I came to your house after having a terrible day and after being with the three of you for less than 10 minutes, all my problems seemed to disappear. You guys had no idea, but that night meant the world to me. Well, now that I have cried all over my laptop, it's time to wrap up this very sappy letter! All three of you are incredibly cute little balls of sunshine. I'm gonna miss your cute faces, butI guess being sent pictures and videos are just going to have to do (hint family) until I see all of you when I'm home. I love you three to infinity and beyond! Stay silly, munchkins :)

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