Listen, I’m 21 years old and I do not have my shit together and the truth is that no one I know has theirs together either. My life most of the time is an absolute mess, but in a good way! It’s happy and it’s fun but if I’m being honest, half of the time it’s also a fucking mess. These four(ish) years are supposed to be the best years of your life; and for one, I don’t necessarily believe that because crying in the library blows, and two, why the hell would you just want a total of four years to be your best years.

I think we’re all at this weird uncomfortable point in life where some of us have it all figured out while some of us are in shambles trying to figure out the next move and whether or not it’ll be a good idea or not. But also, I think being sorta uncomfortable is a good thing.

Ideally, you’d like to have it all together; ideally I would too, but that’s not where I’m at right now. To be honest, I’m nowhere close and that’s okay.

I wish people would stop saying "get your shit together" mainly because who are they to judge where someone is in their life? Yeah, maybe we're falling behind but also we're just trying to figure life out as we go along. My advice (which I should honestly probably take myself) is to not worry about what others are doing. You'll get there, you'll figure it out, and you have time.