There is this idea that women cannot be sexual beings. The recent VMAs showed an example of this. When Arianna Grande and Nicki Minja preformed their song side to side they were surrounded by "hot" men and at the end of the song they pushed the men's heads down to their crotch giving the illusion that they were receiving oral sex. This shocked people. The idea of a woman openly talking about "getting head" is taboo in our society, but why?

Male singers and rappers talk about sex all the time. Some people even say it's disgusting when a woman discusses it but when a man does people applaud him. This is clearly a double standard.

If a woman is public about her sex life she will be called a "whore" "slut" "loose" so as a woman I am told I shouldn't really talk about my sexual relationships or how I am really attracted to someone. A good example of this is naked posters. We all been into a straight male's dorm room and seen a half naked Kate Upton hanging on his wall. We think nothing of it. But let's say if I, a female has a half naked poster of Zac Efron on my wall. People would probably think I'm weird. Being attracted to a shirtless man is weird if you are public about it apparently.

I am over this double standard.

I believe woman can be as open as they want about their sexuality if they choose to be and not be judged for it.