Reasons Why I Love Cape Cod

Reasons Why I Love Cape Cod

The greatest place on Earth

Hyannis Harbor on Nantucket Sound

Growing up, many of my classmates yearned to get out of Cape Cod. Whether they were bored or just sick of the cold winters, they never wanted to live the rest of their lives there. And yet, when many of these students left for college, they immediately looked forward to going back. Cape Cod has that kind of charm. From the summer night bonfires to hours lying at the beach, the Cape is a paradise. It is a place where I grew up my whole life and one I would never want to leave for good as life goes on. Here's why.

The location


I'm not a city guy at all and I don't know what I'd do if I was miles and miles away from the coast. Besides I like seeing the stars at night without the intense light pollution. I can see the appeal in the "big city lights," but that's not my scene. I'm all for the beach. The landscape and sights of Cape Cod is truly something to fall in love with. The small cozy summer homes, the historic locations, the marshes and beaches that stretch for miles. Let's not forget that you can see the entire "arm" of the Cape light up on the Fourth of July, from Sandwich all the way to Provincetown. I guess you could say that's my idea of "big city lights." And we have cranberry bogs, which really excites tourists for some reason.

The serenity

Bass Hole, Yarmouth

Cape Cod is very peaceful and calm, even with the tourists bustling through. It's a great place to go for a nice walk through the quiet little towns or long sandy roads. The people are very kind and it's just an overall family-friendly area. Plus you can fall asleep on the beach listening to the sound of the waves and wind chimes blowing in the breeze.

The outdoor life

Fort Hill, Eastham

I like to call myself an outdoorsman. I don't think there was a day when I was inside while I was spending summers on the Cape. Heck even some of my jobs were spent outside. Regardless, I would always be out adventuring with friends, at the beach, or in the water. Enjoying the Cape isn't just limited to the summer though. You can go for a hayride at Tobey Farm or apple picking at Hawk's Wing Farm in the fall. Let's not forget about the Wellfleet OysterFest! In the winter, there's the First Night Celebration in Sandwich on New Year's Eve. That night, people still have their Christmas lights up. So as you're driving through the town at night, it feels like being a kid again. Lastly, you can go hiking through the Fort Hill trails or go fishing by the jetty in the spring. Plus before the tourists come, you can enjoy the beach life in peace AND it will be warm enough. It's also never too early to break out the kayaks! And besides...

It looks pretty all year round

Foliage in Estuary, North Falmouth

Highland Light, North Truro

Orleans United Methodist Church

Many forget that people live on the Cape all year. We tough out the snow and cold sea winds in the winter and manage just fine. In the midst of it all, the Cape becomes even more colorful in the fall, a winter wonderland after the blizzard, and really blooms in the spring. Not to mention the smaller crowds...

That Cape Cod clam chowder

Need I say more?

The summer adventures

Woods Hole, Falmouth

If you love biking, running, or hiking, Cape Cod is the place for you. Whether through the forests and parks, or the sandy roads along the sand dunes and shoreline. In the meantime, you can go floating with the current through the marshes and streams, go whale watching, boating, parasailing, you name it! It doesn't stop there though. Every summer you spend there, you'll meet new people that you can instantly connect with. And who knows? Maybe they know of a secret spot on the beach away from the chaos? Or they have a boat to go cruising on. Traveling to another part of the Cape or one of the islands is a vacation in itself!

Plus, there is always some kind of fair, barbecue, parade or town event happening somewhere. Believe me, if you come to the Cape this summer, there will always be something to do and reminisce fondly about later.

The tourist traps that we fall for ourselves

Who says you can't go mini-golfing with your friends, or try some expensive seafood at some low key shack? The ice cream too is something to die for, especially if you can find the ones you get your money's worth for. They're all guilty pleasures that I can't help myself enjoying.

It's my home

Boardwalk, Sandwich

I love to travel and go to new places. I have had some of the greatest times of my life on many vacations and excursions. With that being said though, there's only one place I can truly call home: Cape Cod. I've lived here my whole life and don't really plan on changing that. Sure I will always be seeking new and exciting places to explore, as well as opening more doors to new opportunities. However, I will always look back on all the Cape has given me in my life with a sense of comfort and happiness. There's a lot to do, it has friendly people, and it's just an overall great area to be in. Everyone has a place that gives them a special feeling, a place that makes them feel at home. For me, it's every time I return from one of my journeys and I feel that ocean breeze. Every time, I am reminded how grateful I am to be a resident of Cape Cod. If you haven't already and get the chance, come see for yourself what the Cape is all about. You won't be disappointed.

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Your Wait time At Theme Parks Is Not Unfair, You're Just Impatient

Your perceived wait time is always going to be longer than your actual wait time if you can't take a minute to focus on something other than yourself.


Toy Story Land at Disney's Hollywood Studios "unboxed" on June 30, 2018. My friend and I decided to brave the crowds on opening day. We got to the park around 7 AM only to find out that the park opened around 6 AM. Upon some more scrolling through multiple Disney Annual Passholder Facebook groups, we discovered that people were waiting outside the park as early as 1 AM.

We knew we'd be waiting in line for the bulk of the Toy Story Land unboxing day. There were four main lines in the new land: the line to enter the land; the line for Slinky Dog Dash, the new roller coaster; the line for Alien Spinning Saucers, the easier of the new rides in the land; Toy Story Mania, the (now old news) arcade-type ride; and the new quick-service restaurant, Woody's Lunchbox (complete with grilled cheese and "grown-up drinks").

Because we were so early, we did not have to wait in line to get into the land. We decided to ride Alien Spinning Saucers first. The posted wait time was 150 minutes, but my friend timed the line and we only waited for 50 minutes. Next, we tried to find the line for Slinky Dog Dash. After receiving conflicting answers, the runaround, and even an, "I don't know, good luck," from multiple Cast Members, we exited the land to find the beginning of the Slinky line. We were then told that there was only one line to enter the park that eventually broke off into the Slinky line. We were not about to wait to get back into the area we just left, so we got a Fastpass for Toy Story Mania that we didn't plan on using in order to be let into the land sooner. We still had to wait for our time, so we decided to get the exclusive Little Green Man alien popcorn bin—this took an entire hour. We then used our Fastpass to enter the land, found the Slinky line, and proceeded to wait for two and a half hours only for the ride to shut down due to rain. But we've come this far and rain was not about to stop us. We waited an hour, still in line and under a covered area, for the rain to stop. Then, we waited another hour and a half to get on the ride from there once it reopened (mainly because they prioritized people who missed their Fastpass time due to the rain). After that, we used the mobile order feature on the My Disney Experience app to skip part of the line at Woody's Lunchbox.

Did you know that there is actually a psychological science to waiting? In the hospitality industry, this science is the difference between "perceived wait" and "actual wait." A perceived wait is how long you feel like you are waiting, while the actual wait is, of course, the real and factual time you wait. There are eight things that affect the perceived wait time: unoccupied time feels longer than occupied time, pre-process waits feel longer than in-process waits, anxiety makes waits feel longer, uncertain waits are longer than certain waits, unexplained waits are longer than explained waits, unfair waits are longer than equitable waits, people will wait longer for more valuable service and solo waiting feels longer than group waiting.

Our perceived wait time for Alien Spinning Saucers was short because we expected it to be longer. Our wait for the popcorn seemed longer because it was unoccupied and unexplained. Our wait for the rain to stop so the ride could reopen seemed shorter because it was explained. Our wait between the ride reopening and getting on the coaster seemed longer because it felt unfair for Disney to let so many Fastpass holders through while more people waited through the rain. Our entire wait for Slinky Dog Dash seemed longer because we were not told the wait time in the beginning. Our wait for our food after placing a mobile order seemed shorter because it was an in-process wait. We also didn't mind wait long wait times for any of these experiences because they were new and we placed more value on them than other rides or restaurants at Disney. The people who arrived at 1 AM just added five hours to their perceived wait

Some non-theme park examples of this science of waiting in the hospitality industry would be waiting at a restaurant, movie theater, hotel, performance or even grocery store. When I went to see "Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom," the power went out in the theater right as we arrived. Not only did we have to wait for it to come back and for them to reset the projectors, I had to wait in a bit of anxiety because the power outage spooked me. It was only a 30-minute wait but felt so much longer. At the quick-service restaurant where I work, we track the time from when the guest places their order to the time they receive their food. Guests in the drive-thru will complain about 10 or more minute waits, when our screens tell us they have only been waiting four or five minutes. Their actual wait was the four or five minutes that we track because this is when they first request our service, but their perceived wait begins the moment they pull into the parking lot and join the line because this is when they begin interacting with our business. While in line, they are experiencing pre-process wait times; after placing the order, they experience in-process wait times.

Establishments in the hospitality industry do what they can to cut down on guests' wait times. For example, theme parks offer services like Disney's Fastpass or Universal's Express pass in order to cut down the time waiting in lines so guests have more time to buy food and merchandise. Stores like Target or Wal-Mart offer self-checkout to give guests that in-process wait time. Movie theaters allow you to check in and get tickets on a mobile app and some quick-service restaurants let you place mobile or online orders. So why do people still get so bent out of shape about being forced to wait?

On Toy Story Land unboxing day, I witnessed a woman make a small scene about being forced to wait to exit the new land. Cast Members were regulating the flow of traffic in and out of the land due to the large crowd and the line that was in place to enter the land. Those exiting the land needed to wait while those entering moved forward from the line. Looking from the outside of the situation as I was, this all makes sense. However, the woman I saw may have felt that her wait was unfair or unexplained. She switched between her hands on her hips and her arms crossed, communicated with her body language that she was not happy. Her face was in a nasty scowl at those entering the land and the Cast Members in the area. She kept shaking her head at those in her group and when allowed to proceed out of the land, I could tell she was making snide comments about the wait.

At work, we sometimes run a double drive-thru in which team members with iPads will take orders outside and a sequencer will direct cars so that they stay in the correct order moving toward the window. In my experience as the sequencer, I will inform the drivers which car to follow, they will acknowledge me and then still proceed to dart in front of other cars just so they make it to the window maybe a whole minute sooner. Not only is this rude, but it puts this car and the cars around them at risk of receiving the wrong food because they are now out of order. We catch these instances more often than not, but it still adds stress and makes the other guests upset. Perhaps these guests feel like their wait is also unfair or unexplained, but if they look at the situation from the outside or from the restaurant's perspective, they would understand why they need to follow the blue Toyota.

The truth of the matter is that your perceived wait time is always going to be longer than your actual wait time if you can't take a minute to focus on something other than yourself. We all want instant gratification, I get it. But in reality, we have to wait for some things. It takes time to prepare a meal. It takes time to experience a ride at a theme park that everyone else wants to go on. It takes time to ring up groceries. It takes patience to live in this world.

So next time you find yourself waiting, take a minute to remember the difference between perceived and actual wait times. Think about the eight aspects of waiting that affect your perceived wait. Do what you can to realize why you are waiting or keep yourself occupied in this wait. Don't be impatient. That's no way to live your life.

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'Riverdale' And Hilton Head Are Basically The Same Town

And you may think the same about your hometown!


A couple of weeks ago I began to binge watch the television show Riverdale, on Netflix. As I watched, I noticed similar characteristics about the town of Riverdale, and the town of Hilton Head Island, where I grew up. I was humored by some of the coincidental similarities between the two towns and noticed more and more as the show progressed.

I'm sure I am being extremely closed-minded by thinking that Hilton Head is the only town similar to Riverdale. So, If you are from a smaller town, you may think some of Riverdale's characteristics depict your hometown as well!

1. The Local Diner is a Popular Hotspot, and the Milkshakes are Favored


In Hilton Head, you are most likely to find half the high school at the Diner past 11 pm!

2. Every Weekend Consists of;


- Fridays at the HS football game.

- Saturdays at the Movie Theatre.

- Sundays watching HBO.

3. Inappropriate Student-Teacher Relationships.



4. Having your significant other/friends parent dating your parent.



5. News of Crime Spreads a Mile a Minute.


And Hilton Head is only fourteen miles long. So.

There are so many other similarities between Riverdale and Hilton Head, but here are five that stood out to me!

How does your hometown compare???

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Noelle Glover

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