Growing up in a small town, you hear all the stereotypes. There's nothing to do, news and gossip spread like wildfire and everyone knows everything about everyone. Coming from Galesburg, North Dakota, I can say that there is some truth to each of these stereotypes; however, I am glad I grew up in a small town rather than a big city and here's why:
1. The sense of community
Coming from a town of less than 100 people, you will get to know each and every one of them. This is a good thing, too. When something goes wrong such as a pasture fire or someone's house flooding, all of these people rally together to help the people affected. It's amazing what a town of 100 people can do for the ones they love.
2. The openness and freedom
Back home, my closest neighbor is a mile away. That is not the case here in a city where my closest neighbor is a few yards away. Don't get me wrong, having people around is great, but it's nice to get away from everything for awhile. So many people and buildings make everything feel cramped and hard to breath at times.
3. The sky
Yes, this gets a whole section just for itself. The night life of the city may be exciting and vibrant, but have you seen the sky lit up by thousands of stars on a summer night? I have, and it is one of the most beautiful sights out there. In the city, there is smog and so much light pollution, but in the country it's a canvas of art you could get lost in.
4. Life is simpler
With fewer distractions such as traffic or crowded malls and streets, life in a small town is much simpler. Now, I love going to the mall or the movie theater as much as the next person, but going back to my roots and taking pleasure in the small things is where it's at. We take pride in the little things, and it's these little things are what people will remember.
5. It's made me who I am
Coming from a small town has taught me a lot of lessons as well creating an identity for myself. I've learned the value of hard work and giving my all in everything I do. I've learned about the value of kindness, empathy and treating people with respect during every encounter. If I was to have grown up anywhere other than small-town North Dakota, I know I would not be the person I am today.
Coming from a small town may have its downside, but the positives far outweigh any negatives associated with growing up there. I know I probably won't be living in a small town when I graduate, but I won't ever forget where I came from and the community that made the person I am today.
