I Won't Apologize For Being Best Friends With My Boyfriend
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I Won't Apologize For Being Best Friends With My Boyfriend

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I Won't Apologize For Being Best Friends With My Boyfriend
Clay Howard

You're my goofball, the mac to my cheese, the peanut butter to my jelly, the ball to my glove, and most importantly: you are my best friend.


Being in love with my best friend has to be one of the greatest feelings in the world. Everything we do together is an adventure, we never get tired of each other. Even if we are going on a car ride or sitting on the couch, every moment, every minute with him is always fun and a good time. Being in love with your best friend is so much better than just being in love with your boyfriend. Being each other's best friends makes the bond so much stronger and the heart so much fonder.

I believe in my boyfriend in everything he does, I'll always be his number one fan and biggest supporter in life. What makes this amazing is that he is mine as well. He makes me want to be a better person and a better friend.

There is never a dull moment between us, we make each other laugh constantly. Sometimes we laugh uncontrollably and can't stop for minutes! From silly faces and dancing in the car, to singing horribly (on purpose) and embarrassing each other in public, there is no one else I would rather be goofy with than my best friend whom I am in so in love with.

After a while of being best friends with my boyfriend, we started to say the same things at the same time. It'll always end with "pinch, poke, you owe me a coke." Then we would say that at the same time, over and over again, until one of us messes up and wins. This literally happens every single time we are together...

He is the one I tell my darkest secrets to, the person I go to when I need a shoulder to lean on, to cry to, the person who will always listen to what I have to say and always tell me his opinion.

Yes, we get into arguments and usually they are so stupid and make no sense. But there is no one else I would rather have stupid arguments with but my best friend. I honestly think having arguments with someone you love is healthy. I am not talking about having an argument every single day, I am talking about every once in a while.

To me, it is not who you are dating or who you are attracted to. It is about who you are with that person and what you both want out of life. Being in a relationship, I believe you have to have a friendship with that person to make it work. It is not all about romance, it is about enjoying the company you both bring. Don't get me wrong, romance is a plus; who doesn't love romance?? I would choose to be best friends with my boyfriend any day over just a romantic relationship.

I will not apologize for being best friends with my boyfriend. I will not apologize today or tomorrow, not ever.


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