Living the single life can be difficult at times. We all want someone there to make us feel wanted and loved, especially during the holidays when we look around and feel like everyone else has that special someone. This is my first single holiday in a few years, and I realized something: it's so much less stressful. So if you're feeling sad about being single for the holidays, here's some reasons why you shouldn't.
1. One less present to buy
We all know as a college student, our budget is limited. So having one less present to buy when you don't have a significant other can actually be a blessing in disguise. And I know for me, I always struggled with what to even buy for a boy.
2. No awkward family situations
I'm the person who drops tomato sauce on my white shirt during important dinners, so this is a huge one for me. Meeting your boyfriend or girlfriend's family can be extremely stressful, especially during the holidays when extended family is usually involved.
3. Eat what you want
You have no one to impress, so eat all the turkey and pumpkin pie you want, no one is judging.
4. More time with family and friends
I know for me being away at school means I don't see my family or friends at home much anymore. Not having to worry about a significant other over the holidays opens up so much time to spend with your loved ones without having to worry about being pulled in two different directions.
5. Go on vacation without guilt
Without feeling like you're leaving someone behind at home, you can go on vacation with your friends and family without feeling guilty about it.
6. Time to relax
Without the pressure of having someone by your side, you're able to focus on what the holidays are all about, which is relaxing and getting yourself rejuvenated for the new year.
7. No pressure to be romantic
Let's be real, romance can be stressful and kind of difficult. So without that added pressure that comes along with Christmas and Valentine's Day, you're romantic side can take a breather.
8. Binge watch a Netflix show with no distractions
You know that show you haven't had time to watch on Netflix? Well now you do with no distractions. So thank your single status for being able to binge watch Gilmore Girls.
9. Wear your favorite sweatpants on Christmas
With no one to impress, might as well wear your ugly sweatpants with 5 different holes in them. We all know those are the most comfortable ones.
10. New Year's parties are way more fun
You aren't obligated to focus on anyone New Year's Eve, so party with your friends and talk about embarrassing college stories.
11. Focus on what's really important: You
Life is full of ups and downs, but the only thing you can do through it all is focus on yourself. You are what's really important, and you don't need a significant other in your life to tell you that.
