Why Growing Up Without Technology Was The Best

Why Growing Up Without Technology Was The Best

I didn't grow up caring about "likes" more than friends.
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I have very vivid memories of my childhood.

I remember the summer memories: playing in the mud, the dirt, the rain. I remember making chalk racetracks down our driveway and into the cul-de-sac and acting out scenes from my brother and I's favorite play, Phantom of the Opera.

I remember the winter memories: playing in the snow, bundled up almost to the point where we couldn't move. I remember pretending to be different Arctic animals and sledding down our giant hill in the backyard.

I remember the memories of board games like Mousetrap, Monopoly, and Guess Who. I remember playing spies in the house and in clothing stores while hiding from mom.

My childhood was full of never before discovered worlds and kingdoms that had yet to be conquered. I could be anything I wanted from a princess to Kimpossible, to Christine from The Phantom of the Opera. My imagination would run wild.

All of these memories have something in common: the absence of technology.

My parents encouraged going outside and some days even forced us to. When new games with technology started coming out they didn't buy them for us. We didn't have phones until we were even in high school.

I remember being so jealous of all my friends who had iPods and phones. I wanted them SO bad, but my parents wouldn't budge.

Looking back I am so grateful they never bought us them until later, and I am so happy I grew up in a time before technology was everything.

I see all these kids today with phones or, at least two electronic devices before they are even out of elementary school. They grow up worried about what everyone else is doing. Young girls are comparing themselves to other girls on social media and are more worried about how many likes they get than having actual friends.

Now, I like social media and having my phone just as much as the next person, but I am glad I didn't grow up like that. I am glad I didn't grow up with the pressures of having the perfect hair and perfect outfit and perfect make up. Heck, I didn't even use any makeup until 8th grade and that was only mascara!

All of this technology is limiting some of these kids from growing up in a world of face to face interaction. They are learning how to socialize through phones and iPods and tablets instead of person to person contact. They are growing up in a world where a "like" signifies self-worth and friendship.

I was able to live a life free of all those societal pressures. I was able to grow up without the stress of being "perfect". I was able to be myself and be completely happy with that. And I will forever be grateful for that.

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25 Responses To Your Friend Who Doesn't Text Back

Omg thanks for responding so quickly...oh, wait.
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We all have that friend. That friend we love to death, but if we are sure of anything in this world, it’s that they will not respond to your text because they suck at texting. That moment when you see “Read 1:04 p.m.” and you’re like “and???? Helloooooooo!”

These are 25 responses for that dear friend.

1. Lol thanks for tagging me in that FB post, now text me tf back.


2. OMG, wait you met Chris Hemsworth and he’s professing his love to you??!! No? Okay, then you can def text me back.

3. Hey I’m coming to help you since you obviously broke your thumbs and can’t respond.

4. Lolol thanks for responding. I’ll just continue the conversation with myself. That’s cool.

5. Good chat.

6. Yeah I wouldn’t know how to respond either, pizza topping selection is a thought-provoking process. Take your time. Meditate on it.

7. The classic: ^^^^^^^^^


8. I hope you’re writing me the 8th Harry Potter novel.

9. That was a yes or no question. This isn’t difficult. You wouldn’t do well with ‘Sophie’s Choice.’

10. Omg, did you pass out from the excitement of getting a text from me? Totally understandable. Text me when you regain consciousness, love.

11. Omg what a witty and clever response. Nothing. So philosophical.

12. The only excuse I’ll accept is if you’re eating guac and don’t want to get it on your phone. Because avocados are life.

13. I love it when you do that adorable thing when you don’t text me back for hours. So cute.


14. Okay I’ll answer for you. Yes, you’re going out tonight. Glad we had this convo.

15. In the time it has taken you to respond, dinosaurs could have retaken the earth.

16. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

17. The dramatic but also very valid response: That’s what happens when you don’t respond for 30 minutes. People die.


18. I apologize for asking if you were coming to watch Bachelor, clearly the decision has caused you serious reflection on your priorities. I’m sorry to have caused you this existential crisis.

19. Sorry I annoyed you with my friendship. But like plz respond…

20. Your response time is longer than Ross and Rachel’s entire relationship. 10 seasons. You couldn’t text me back for 10 seasons?!!

21. Wait. You’re responding too fast. I can’t keep up. Hang on. Don’t respond so quickly. Jeez.

22. A subtle but perfectly placed gif. What will you go with? The classic eye roll perhaps or maybe a “you suck.”


23. Did you fall off a cliff? Wait, you don’t exercise. Pause your Netflix and respond b*tch.

24. Omg I WON THE LOTTERY. *responds* Lol now you respond…

25. And my personal favorite and go to, Did you text me and then decide to THROW YOUR PHONE ACROSS THE OCEAN?! Lol swim fast, I need an answer.

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5 Apps To Help You Keep Your New Year's Resolutions

To help you focus on making the most of the year.

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It's getting to that point in the year where people are starting to lose steam when it comes to their New Year's Resolutions. If you're like me, you make some pretty big goals, but then fall short on how to achieve them. We are all so connected to our phones, that sometimes the best way to keep track of our goals, is to use our phones. Here's a list of 5 apps that will help keep you on track for your New Year's resolutions.

1. Goodreads.

If one of your resolutions was to read more, then this is the app for you. Goodreads lets you set a reading goal for the year and track your progress. You can make reading lists and track your progress page by page. It also allows you to review books and read other people's reviews.

2. TV Time.

If one of your resolutions was to catch up on all of those shows that people talk about that you've never seen, then try TV Time. Much like Goodreads, it allows you to select what shows you want to watch, log shows you have watched, and track your progress episode by episode. It also lets you look at reviews and interact with other users.

3. Letterboxd.

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If TV shows aren't your thing, but you vowed to watch more movies, then Letterboxd is more your speed. Browse movies by genre, popularity, release date, and many more. Select the movies you have watched and pick which ones are on your watchlist. You can make lists of movies and browse others altogether and you can also rate and review every movie.

4. Flora.

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If you have made either a resolution to use your phone less or to focus more, try downloading Flora. Flora lets you set a timer 25 minutes up to almost 2 hours. Once you set a timer, a seed is planted on your phone and if you click any buttons, the plant will die. However, if you succeed and don't use your phone within the time you set, a tree will grow and will be added to your digital garden. If you need a little more incentive, you can bet real money that you won't lose. If you do lose, you pay the money and a real tree is planted in a rural community. When signing up with Facebook, you can also see how many trees your friends have planted.

5. One List.

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One of the New Year's resolutions people have is to be more productive. If you're like me, you're most productive when you have a list of the things you have to do. One List is the most simple to do list app I have found. You simply pull down on the screen to add something to the list. You can set a priority for each task and then they are automatically sorted from highest to lowest priority. Then you simply swipe to check a task off the list.

So, unless one of your resolutions was to reduce how much you use your phone or stop using your phone altogether, some of these apps are bound to help you achieve one of your resolutions.

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