When I was growing up, I have always dreamed of moving and going to college up North. I wanted something different from my home's hot and humid weather, and to live in a different environment from where I grew up. Moving to another state thousands of miles away from your home is an exciting feeling. Looking back, I still do not regret my decision.
Going out-of-state for college has helped me become more independent and step out of my comfort zone. Getting around an unfamiliar city was scary at first, but I quickly adjusted to getting around on my own and felt confident exploring the area. Due to the fact that I'm far away from my parents, I learned how to manage my life and effectively deal with problems without requiring their assistance all the time. Not being able to go home every single weekend has made me fall more in love with my school and make the most out of every passing moment.
When you go to school in a different state, you are more likely to meet people who come from different backgrounds than you. This has helped me grow as a person and become open-minded. If I stayed in my state for college, I would have been surrounded by many people from my hometown. Being an out-of-state student has given me the opportunity to make friends from all over the country. The friends I've made here are very important to me and have a positive impact on my college career.
One thing that I learned from leaving my home, and moving to another state, is that you gain appreciation for your home more when you're away. As an out-of-state student, I look forward to going home during breaks. As they say, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." The limited number of times I'm home over the year make my time at home and with my family and home friends more meaningful.
Going out-of-state for college is a privilege. I am so grateful that I get to have this opportunity that has shaped me into the person I am today and will continue to benefit me even when I am an alumna. There is nothing better than living your life in two different places!
