Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People?

Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People?

Finding assurance in the midst of hard times.

There’s this age-old question that I am 100% sure you have heard:

"Why do bad things happen to good people?"

Just to be clear, I don’t have the answer to this question.

However, I feel that God has recently provided me with peace of mind...He has brought to my heart, a new book in the Bible:

The book of Ezekiel.

I can’t imagine how I never truly noticed it before. It is full of meaning and depth and harsh beauty.

Ezekiel has this call to demonstrate God as Sovereign Lord.

At first glance, this book is filled with God’s promises of punishment to Israel, but actually, this book is a book of hope. It is filled with God’s amazing promises to His people-a covenant of peace, and an everlasting covenant-God calls it.

See somewhere along the line, the Israelites forgot that God is supreme. They had forgotten their own history of how God had protected them. They had let themselves wander once again, not into the dessert, but into the arms of false gods.

And God was gracious enough to not allow them to stay there.

One of the themes I am finding in Ezekiel is that God wants to be known as the one true God. He says so often to Ezekiel.

“And then they will know that I am the Sovereign Lord.”

The catch is these words usually come after God promises to send His people through trials, which is a major bummer.

But then I realized: that’s what God uses. He uses trials so that we may “know that He is Lord.” As I ponder this, I realize that as a believer, I don’t think I’ve ever gone through something crappy and come out on the other end knowing God less. I always know Him better.

I begin to understand Him as gracious, loving, kind, caring, friend, father, provider, judge, …..sovereign Lord.

I don’t have all the answers, but maybe, just maybe, the key to working through hard times, is not that we need to fully understand the circumstances, it’s that we need to understand ourselves and God.

“So that we may know that He is Lord.”

Or in my own words, so that we may step into a deeper relationship with Him.

Because the truth of the matter is that when we walk through hurt and pain and struggles with God by our side, we begin to discover. All of a sudden this portion of God that we never understood before, begins to step into the light.

And a new piece of God is unleashed. And these trials lead to faith.

Suddenly your own story has instilled in you an assurance.

Because after your fight to understand, you can say with confidence:

Yes God is good.

Yes God is kind.

Yes God is loving.

Yes God is Sovereign Lord, and my story is proof….

After this, it will be as though no one can make you deny what God has proven to you is true.

Why else would God allow us to experience such hard things? He never does things without a purpose. He wants us to know Him better.

So this world-famous question that everyone seems to ask themselves sometimes in life, why do bad things happen to good people...I still have not answered it, I know. But maybe the secret of answering this question does not lie where we think it does. Perhaps, we must simply realize that God’s ultimate goal is to draw us nearer to Him.

Whatever you are going through, whatever the confusion or heartache, search yourself and God. Seek to understand who He is and who He has created you to be.

It is there, that you will find assurance.
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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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How Incorporating Organization In My Daily Routine Single-Handedly Changed My Life

And how it can structure yours.


It would be a complete fabrication of the truth if I pretended that my life in any way has been picture perfect. Things are messy, life is messy, and my life becomes an endless cycle of self provoked destruction.

I've had short bursts of motivation as a last expedient to seize control of the downward spiral I have endured. But mostly they have diminished along with any motivation I have left.

None of these short term solutions have yet to salvage my mental, physical, and academic state. SO, as an attempt to overhaul my life, I decided the best way to strive for control, is to organize every aspect of my life.

Yes, this could become unhealthy if I used this tactic as a way to tear myself down or over analyze my accomplishments, or lack thereof. But I try to view my life as something I have a say in while considering that not everything will be perfect or completely satisfy my goals for myself.

To successfully enact this measure, I try to never go into a day unaware of what I must accomplish, what tasks/work I have to attend to, and stocked with a full calendar and set of alarms that prevent me from missing deadlines. Although mildly time-consuming to detail my life in advance, it is greatly beneficially outweighed through the amount of time this tactic saves me.

Recently, I have noticed how much happier I have been, and feel as if my life is back on track and it's future in my hands. This has allowed me to work an upwards of 50 something hours a week, see and manage friends, read and keep up with hobbies, as well as give me peace of mind and time to relax with loved ones.

I am grateful for the role that organization has played in my life and suggest that everyone incorporate some type of underlying structure in their lives, to realize that anything is achievable with proper organizational preparation.

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