My decision to join a sorority was not an easy one. There are a lot of things to consider when deciding whether it's worth it for you personally. Sororities can cost quite a bit of money and they do require you to put forth some time and effort even though your school/work schedule is already pretty busy. But in my opinion, the pros far outweigh the cons. My decision to rush was one of the best decisions I've made in my life so far. Here's why I think you should rush:
1. To make new friends
You're in a new town at a college where you don't know anyone. You might know your roommates and a few people from high school that chose the same college as you, but it's a good idea to branch out. Rushing is a great way to meet new people and make lifelong friendships. You can never have too many friends. Or Instagram followers.
2. To get involved on campus.
There's like a million events on campus that you didn't even know about. When you're a part of Greek Life, you find out about all of them. Some of these events are optional to attend, some are mandatory for your chapter but either way they are usually pretty fun and a great way to fully get the college experience.
3. To have a family away from your family.
You have a big and a grandbig, maybe a twin. Then you get a little and a grandlittle. You actually get a little family. Even beyond your bigs and littles, all the girls in the sorority are your sisters. It all sounds really cheesy, but it's awesome to have a little family with you at school
4. Philanthropy
Philanthropy is such an important part of Greek Life. It's one of my favorite parts of my sorority and my particular sorority's philanthropy (breast cancer education and awareness) had a huge impact on my decision to choose ZTA. A few people I know and care about have breast cancer and it makes me so proud to be a part of a sorority that is doing something about it.
5. It looks good on your resume.
We're all in college for the same reason, to get a job after we graduate. It's pretty competitive in the job world out there, so anything extra that can be added to your resume is a big plus. The philanthropy side of Greek Life gives a positive effect on your chances of getting the job.
6. To get out of my comfort zone.
A lot of people were surprised when I joined a sorority, because I'm not exactly what you call the "sorority type." I'm shy, a little awkward, and I don't party (a lot of sorority girls actually don't party btw). Joining a sorority has helped me to get over my shyness and my insecurities. It gets me to talk to people I maybe wouldn't normally talk to and to have more confidence in myself.
7. There's a lot of cute pics and t-shirts.
Not the best reason to rush, but it's still a big plus in joining a sorority. We have events, formals, and socials and we make a different cute t-shirt for every one. Also, at these events and socials we take lots of pictures and they almost always turn out adorable. Just look at our recruitment videos.
8. To get a sense of belonging.
When I decided to rush, I had heard all these girls saying "I found my home away from home," "I found the place where I belong," etc. I figured they were being dramatic. Could I really feel at home and like I belonged there in a sorority? I was definitely on the fence when I first joined, but it's amazing how "at home" you really feel. It doesn't make me miss my "real home" any less, but it does make being here at school so much better. I feel like I'm where I'm supposed to be.
