Recently, the ultimate bomb was dropped about the Kardashian gang and "no one" saw it coming. Scott Disick reportedly cheated on Kourtney Kardashian and now they split, rightfully so. All of the hardships they've been through, their three children and Disick's drinking problem couldn't have predicted this terrible outcome.. Wrong, because he was toxic from the start.

The woman Disick cheated with, Chloe Bartoli, is a stylist and American socialite, however not very well known. But that doesn't stop Kardashian fans from writing the nastiest things about her on social media. Anyone can search her name on Instagram and post comments about how much of a "whore" she is or how it's entirely her fault that Scott and Kourtney broke up. The public's "perfect" couple now disappeared because of one woman.

It disgusts me these women idealize Scott Disick. Why do we do this? Yes, he's attractive. Yes, he has money and can be a good father. But he treats Kourtney like absolute crap, even when they're together. He treats any woman like crap. Take the episode of Kim's birthday for example. Now we all know that reality television is amplified for viewers, but that only makes this worse. Disick was a drunken a**hole the whole night: drinking too much, fighting family members and pretending that his childish attitude was acceptable. This is so unhealthy and yet the public thinks it was a BAD idea for them to split.

And don't even get me started on how the blame is entirely on the mistress, Chloe Bartoli, and not Disick. Fans are distraught that this would even happen, like they're in a fantasy world where cheating and alcoholism is okay. Which only transfers to real life and makes women just look stupid.

Picture: Chloe Bartoli/Instagram Source: News.com.au & Supplied

I was planning on inserting my own screenshot into this article of the terrible comments on Bartoli's Instagram account, but in a matter of three days she has made it private. Hm, wonder why?

Maybe because women from the ages of ten to thirty are making death threats and slut-shaming her every second of every day. They sit behind their iPhone or Mac laptop telling her that she doesn't compare to Kourtney Kardashian because she's too skinny or ugly. And everyone thinks this is alright because of course, celebrities don't have feelings at all. They know how great they are so they just brush it off.

No, very untrue. I'm sure this poor girl is wondering what she did to get herself into this mess. Oh right, the manipulative Scott Disick who probably told Bartoli everything would be fine and he cared about her and no one would find out.

So yes, feel awful for Kourtney. Feel awful for Chloe. But do not think for one second that the cheater doesn't get all of the blame. It's definitely girl code to not sleep with another woman's man and guy code to not get with another man's woman. However, the cheatee is hypnotized by the cheater into something they both know isn't acceptable.

Scott Disick is in the wrong here. And for all of you women reading this, he is NOT the type of man you need. Just because you think you can fix someone like this and you think you're the exception, you can't and you''re not. He can only fix himself, and most of us have learned that the hard way.

And to Chloe Bartoli, a sincere apology on behalf of every woman everywhere. You do not deserve any of the hate you've gotten or will get in the future. Do you, girl.