When You're From Far Away

Many of Lipscomb’s students are born and bred in Nashville. Those that aren’t are usually from fairly nearby. Lipscomb’s not a huge school, and it’s not greatly well-known outside of the south, so this makes sense. But some of us have found our way to this lovely college we call home from different areas of the US and even different areas of the world — because heaven knows we can’t commute. Here are some things we can probably all relate to if we made more than a 20 hour drive to get here.

1. “So how’d you hear about Lipscomb?”

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Like I said, Lipscomb isn’t a big school. I only heard about it through a pamphlet they sent me in the mail, and I only applied because of the Trustee scholarship. Luckily, the application for that scholarship requires an in-person interview, which made me come out and tour the campus. I loved it here, and I stayed. And, being from California, I’ve had to tell that story a lot.

2. “Where’s your accent from?”

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3. We don’t get to go home for Thanksgiving and Spring Breaks.

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4. We have to do our own laundry.

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5. Weekends.

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Weekends can be incredibly boring unless you’re willing to drive somewhere (or have a lot of homework). Everyone who commutes isn’t on campus, and a lot of the people who live on campus go home. True, it’s not as bad as three day weekends. But it still gets kind of lonely.

In the end, we make do. We all have our reasons for being so far away from home; that’s why we’re still here! I personally can’t wait for the opportunity to see my folks again, but I know that’s not true for everyone. We aren’t unified in our backgrounds, but we can be unified in being far away from home.