The term X-Factor was coined by famous psychologist Leo Buscaglia. X-factor is a term used to describe that special quality that makes each one of us unique. This famous psychologist said that by focusing on our X-factor and not our faults and foibles, we enhance our self-esteem. The trouble comes from determining one’s own X-factor.

Everyone has things that they believe in and value, often called one’s morals. A person’s morals and daily actions are often highlighted and empowered by their X-factor. I truly believe the person who is most critical of myself, is my own self. This makes determining that special quality in ourselves very challenging. Although I may be able to put my morals into words, what drives them is much harder. In order to figure out what makes us special we first must think of things we do every day. The little things in life often are the tell-tale sign of what is special about each person. Whether it is the kind deed you do for a friend or the way you work with others, these things showcase our X-factor.

Your X-factor is what makes you special and what makes you stand-out. If you can’t quite pick out this feature for yourself, try asking your friends and family. It’s an amazing feeling when you hear your friends and family tell you what makes you special and it’s something you don’t even think twice about. Once you are finally able to figure out what your X-factor is, it will drive you in everything you do. It will allow you to shine brighter than you have before. Focusing on your best quality will help eliminate the old ones.