So, you want a tattoo. You're excited, but when it comes down to it, you're worried and a little scared. That's OK, I'm pretty sure everyone's first is that way. I know mine was nerve-wracking, but I managed to get through it, and I'm going to give you first-timers some advice on how to calm your nerves!
First, make absolutely sure you want this tattoo; it is there forever, after all! Consider your job, or the field you're going into, and see if a visible tattoo would be appropriate, and if it's not, make sure to place it in a spot that isn't highly visible.
Next, before you get it done, take the tattoo for a test drive. Here you can get some temporary tattoo paper, so all you need to do is print your design (or one similar) and put it on. This will help to ensure that you like not only the tattoo, but the size and placement, as well. I highly recommend doing this if you're playing around with sizes, or even if you're trying to fit a new piece into a sleeve.
Now if you're worried about the pain like I was, I suggest getting a smaller tattoo your first time. Everyone is different and everyone has different pain thresholds and tolerances. With that being said, it will obviously hurt more on top of bones than on fat or muscle, so keep that in mind if pain is a factor for you! Also, if the pain at any time is too much to bear, you can always ask your artist to take a 10 or 15 minute break; don't be afraid to talk to your artist! (I got mine over a bone, and I would give the pain a 6 out of 10 at the worst parts).
Then, you'll need to set an appointment. Please set an appointment; your artist will thank you, even if it's a simple tattoo. Also, research the artists in your area, find one with a style you like and good reviews, so you know you'll like the artist and their work. It might also help if you go in person to schedule your appointment, so you can personally meet the artist and discuss your concerns or get their opinions or answers. You can never plan too much!
Next, bring a friend or friends. Not only do you need someone there to take pictures and document this decision, but also for support. Squeeze their hand when it hurts and get them to talk to you as long as it doesn't bother your artist. When I went, the friend I went with also got a tattoo, and that helped me not feel so alone, so when in doubt, bring a good friend to help you through!
Last but not least, remember it's your body! You get to choose what you do with it, and you're making it into a beautiful piece of artwork! So, don't let anyone drag you down; be proud and own your tattoos!
As a quick side note, remember to always tip your artist! Tattoos aren't cheap to give, so if you're pleased with the tattoo, please thank your artist with a tip!
