It's hurtful how scared and possessive we've as women have come. I read on Facebook a lot about other girls who have rules and certain people their boyfriend can't hang out with, talk to, be friends with on Facebook, etc. It's crazy!
Let go of the rules I have, that he has to tell me what and when they talk, that they can't hang out alone. I'm giving it up, I'm giving up thinking about her, and I'm done giving her and the enemy power over my emotions.
I know that's easier said than done. Trust me. The reason I am so protective is because I use to have a best friend who was one of those girls. The girl who didn't respect if the guy was in a relationship or not. She was fully okay with sneaking behind the girls back and lying right to their faces. I've seen firsthand how some people just don't care, and it breaks my heart. We weren't made as women to be against each other. We were made to before each other, and work with each other. Because of how some girls and women believe they should take love away from others so they can feel love is heart breaking to me and it's stealing my peace.
"If it cost you your peace, its' too expensive" –unknown
Cheating is a two person game, I know. So what I have to say to that is "if it comes, let it and if it goes, let it." They're just screwing themselves and I'll have freedom from someone who hurt me.
Society doesn't help us with this cause either. There's so many articles out there trying to help us figure out if our partner is cheating. TV shows paint men as un-loyal and unfaithful. Constantly there's images and video's flooding our minds and emotions make us untrustworthy of one another in our relationships.
Enough! It's hurtful, it's damaging, it's honestly SO exhausting. I'm giving up being fearful in my relationship.
