A week that was supposed to be filled with celebrations made an unfortunate turn.
It was a beautiful morning in Australia, when my friend Jordan and I were on our way to a lighthouse to watch the sunrise. It was the day after Christmas for us, and Christmas day for our families back home in the states.
As usual, Jordan checked his phone for messages, but only to find that multiple people had texted him to call his father. “It’s not good. It’s not good,” are the words that his father kept repeating.
As we make our way to the lighthouse, Jordan’s shocked and a bit distraught at the news he just heard.
His mother had a heart attack that took her into a coma. Shortly after, all brain waves were lost. “It’s not good,” as his father said.
Following the trip to the lighthouse, we made every effort to switch our plane tickets that were arranged for two weeks later, for the next day. Finally, we’re on the next flight back to Detroit.
27 hours later, immediately after landing, Jordan makes his way to the hospital just in time to say a final few words to his beloved mother, Tari, 47.
12.28.2014 RIP Theresa Niceley.
A few days following, another tragedy struck. Best friends Carolena Elowsky, and Maura Brandi, both 20, found themselves in trouble when traveling North on U.S. 131. They slid on an icy bridge that resulted in hitting a vehicle traveling in the opposite direction. The accident was fatal for both girls.
1.2.15 RIP Maura Brandi and fellow Kappa sister Carolena Elowsky.
After taking time to reflect on the week’s series of unfortunate events, I’ve realized how precious each day is. Though we grow up hearing that everyday is a gift, it’s hard to actually appreciate until an unexpected tragedy strikes.
Tari, Maura and Carolena were here one day and gone the next, a mind-boggling thought for all those grieving their loss.
Most of us spend our time worrying about tomorrow, or the next day, when tomorrow is not a guarantee. Today is, and that’s all we should focus on enjoying.
I can’t help but question why tragedies like this happen. It’s difficult staring death in the face and hearing people say that everything happens for a reason.
What is that reason, and why did it have to happen so soon? The three of these cherished ladies were so young and had so much life left to live.
My heart, along with many others, goes out to the loved ones of those that have suddenly left us.
