Of course, everyone wants to be the best version of themselves. Obviously, it isn't always easy to achieve such a goal. Here are just a few simple steps that will help you get started on being someone that makes you happy.

1. Actually, Learn To Love Yourself

It has been said that the biggest thing you can do for humanity is to love yourself. And I couldn’t agree more. For me, my healing began from within after years of depression and self-hate. It was when I learned to forgive myself and discovered my true worth. When I began to love myself, everything seemed to fall into place.

2. Surround Yourself With Good People.

It is important to surround yourself with those who believe in you. Not only in you, but your dreams, goals and ambitions. I’ve preached this a million times, but life is too short for people who are poisonous to your life.

3. Set A Goal, and Work Hard to Achieve it

This can be anything. Whether it be going back to school or pursuing your dream job. Whatever you decide to do, make sure you have a plan. It won’t always be easy, and of course, plans can change. But if you work hard, believe in yourself and surround yourself with the right people, you will find success.

4. Work Hard, But Not Too Hard.

We see it too often where people flaunt on social media how busy they always are. While there is nothing wrong with being busy, it’s always important to have time for yourself. Yes, work hard. Work very hard, but not to the point of exhaustion. I’m sure Beyoncé has to take breaks once in a while, too.

5. Get Up Early.

OK, I’ll be the first to admit that I am the world’s worst at this. But when I do happen to wake up early, I can get more things done and I feel more accomplished. I love the extra sleep just like anyone else does, but having that extra time in the morning can make you feel ready to conquer the world.

6. Stop Caring About The Invalid Opinions of Others.

Seriously. Stop it. You can’t spend your whole life trying to please everyone. There comes a point in time where you need to realize that you have to live for YOU.

You and no one else.

Seriously. Everyone is a critic. Some people will always have something to say about you no matter what you do. Seriously, just let it go and be someone that you can be proud of.

7. Be Kind To Others.

To me, the most attractive trait anyone can have is kindness. It also helps you feel better about yourself.

8. Find What Your True Passion Is

We all have passions hidden deep within us. As cheesy as that sounds, it’s the truth. Whether it be art, a sport, writing or, well, anything. The list goes on, really.

While “finding your passion” is a rather old phrase, it can definitely help find you a proper career, other than working an unfulfilling job until the day you die.

You can start by finding something you're mediocre at because, over time, you’ll see some major improvement. Or think about something you enjoyed doing when you were younger, such as painting or writing stories.

9. Don’t Settle. Ever.

It’s important to remember to not settle for anything less than you deserve. Whether it be a friend, lover or even a job.

This can also mean don’t get too comfortable with where you’re at in life. We all have room for improvement, and change can be inevitable. Keep growing and changing.

Always strive to be your best self.