9 Ways For College Girls To Destress

9 Ways For College Girls To Destress

Sit back and relax sister.


We could all blow off a little steam no matter what age, but sometimes college just seems so fast paced and crowded we get lost in the stress and quickness of class on top of class and some students even hold jobs on top of that. So to all the super stressed gals out there, here are a few tips on how to take a few minutes out of your day to have some time to yourself!

1. Have a spa night


Buy some face masks and invite some friends over or even turn on your favorite movie and have a spa night to yourself!

2. Go on a drive


Turn on your favorite playlist and just drive around your town or even a mini road trip! Long drives really relax a lot of people.

3. Cry


Yes, I know that sounds like a joke but sometimes all you need is a good cry so turn on your sad music playlist (I know you have one, everyone has one) or your favorite tear jerking movie and let the tears flow girl!

4. Laugh


On a happier note... crying isn't for everyone! I, for one, am not an emotional person so humor is more my style. Go see a funny movie, hang out with your friends, or watch a comedy show! Anything to get you laughing!

5. Go to the gym


This one is good for you mentally and physically! A lot of people say the gym is their favorite place simply because its where they can blow off all of their steam. Try it! If you like it, it's a great new hobby to have!

6. Try a new hobby


Try something to get your mind off of whatever is stressing you out! It could be painting, writing, singing, or dancing! Whatever you want to give a shot at doing, go for it!

7. Go online shopping


I only recommend this one if you have money to spend. If you have no self control (like myself) then this one can get you into some trouble! Shop wisely people! But don't forget to treat your self every now and then!

8.Try out a new sport


A lot of colleges have intramural teams you can join of almost any sport you can think of! Try one out to take your mind off whatever is causing you stress!

9. Take a nap


I know this seems kind of self explanatory but a lot of times we forget that sleep is kind of a thing that we need to survive. So if your stress is causing you to lose sleep, or your staying up late working on classwork, then take a nap!

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6 Things I Didn't Really Need in My Freshman Dorm, And 6 Things I Wish I Brought Instead

I promise you, being Pinterest-worthy just doesn't make sense in a dorm.

As I packed up my dorm room and unpacked it all once I got home, I kinda felt stupid. I moved in with 2 cars full of stuff (yes, I know how extra that sounds and yes, it was indeed that extra) and I didn't end up needing half of it. Now, I'm swimming in stuff I need to get rid of while holding on to the stuff I didn't realize I would need and ended up buying mid-year. No matter how much you think you know everything, first-time dorm residents, please listen.

6 things I DIDN'T need but swore I did

1. All my personal books

I mean, I'm an English major and I love to read, but no one, and I mean no one, A) has free time and B) uses that free time to read in college.

2. Keurig

There's a coffee shop I can use my cafe credits at on my way to class. I never woke up early enough to brew my own coffee, and I never craved it bad enough in the afternoon to feel like I needed to make my own immediately. It was nice to make tea with though.

3. Dishes and Silverware/Excessive Mugs

All you need is 1 mug and a couple of water bottles. I promise you paper plates and plastic silverware are all you need.

4. An overabundance of office supplies

I didn't use all those fancy office supplies in high school, so as much as I love them, I have yet to reach for them in college.

5. T.V.

The T.V. I had was only slightly bigger than my laptop screen and the wifi at my dorm wasn't good enough for streaming. I hardly used it, but I know others used theirs a lot. Just a personal preference!

6. Tons of wall art

I totally believe wall art has the power to make a dorm room feel less institutional, but I wish I had brought more pictures from home to make my room personal. Pinterest dorm rooms just aren't real, and they aren't what you want when you're homesick.

6 things I wish I had bought before school started

1. ID Lanyard

I personally love these ones from Vera Bradley , but honestly, any way you can carry your ID, money, and keys all in one is a life changer.

2. Earplugs/Eye Mask

Dorms are loud even during quiet hours and sometimes your roommate stays up later or gets up earlier than you do. Amazon couldn't ship these to me fast enough.

3. Wireless Headphones/Earbuds

Personally, I'm an earbuds girl, but either one does the trick. It's nice to not have to deal with cords and to be able to connect to any of your devices without an adapter.

4. Laptop Shell/Stickers

Almost everyone ends up ordering stickers to put on their laptop to express themselves to those around them. On a practical level though, you're probably going to have the same laptop as 5+ other students in your lecture and you will probably throw your laptop in a bag and run at some point. A shell and some stickers will provide more protection than you realize. Check out http://www.redbubble.com for some great options.

5. Small vacuum

This is especially important if you get a rug. Sweeping is not pleasant, and the vacuums at your dorm are probably older than you are.

6. Pictures from home

Like I said before, wall art isn't going to comfort you when you want to go home. A picture of your dog or best friend sure will though.

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Don't Workout Just For A 'Bikini Body'

You're worth so much more than that!


Summer is now here: it's time to celebrate!

For most of us, this includes going to the beach, lake, or pool. But these fun days in the sun require the dreaded task of putting on a bikini or one piece.

Society is so tough on women's bodies. You're not allowed to have cellulite, stretch marks, or any sort of flaw that shows that you're a human. Photoshop makes waists smaller, and butts and breasts bigger. Age spots, wrinkles, and acne are wiped away with the touch of a mouse.

We're told that you must eat practically nothing and work out for hours a day in order to be beautiful. We're told that we're not enough by the shows and movies we watch, the magazines we read, and the social media posts we scroll through each and every day. You're considered desirable only if you're a size 0 or 2.

To conform to these unattainable standards, we do everything in our power to change how we look. We bend over backwards, deprive ourselves, and push our bodies to their maximum limit. For what? To look like Kendall Jenner in her barely-there bikini?

News flash: the Kendall Jenner on the cover of magazines doesn't look like the real Kendall Jenner.

To the girl reading this right now: don't workout to achieve a bikini body! You're amazing just the way you are.

I bet Kendall Jenner in everyday life doesn't look like she does when she's at red carpet events. I'm sure she deals with the same insecurities that we all do. Why do I think that? Because she is a human just like you and I.

I'm not promoting a sedentary lifestyle with poor eating habits, but cut yourself some slack. Your body is unique because nobody looks exactly like you. That is your superpower. Embrace yourself for who you are, inside and out.

Workout for yourself, and not anyone else.

Don't workout to seek approval of others. Don't have a "thinspiration", a weight on the scale, or a number in your head you want to stick to. Don't overexert yourself. Don't count calories, whether if it's the amount burned in a workout, or how much you eat.

Workout because the endorphins make you feel good. Workout because you love seeing the progress in the mirror, and in your mind. Workout to relieve stress. Workout to be strong, not a stick figure. Eat the foods that will sustain you. Eat the foods that will fuel your brain, and allow you to go through day-to-day activities.

The goal is to be happy and healthy. To do this, you must have a balance.

The best way to do this is to follow the 80/20 rule. Nourish your body and exercise most of the time, but let yourself have a cheat day every once-in-a-while. There's amazing events in life that you don't want to miss out on just because you're afraid that extra piece of pizza or glass of wine will offset the work you put in earlier that day. Let yourself off the hook.

If you're afraid someone will judge you for eating ice cream, or deciding not to go to the gym because you had a busy day and got tired, get rid of those people in your life. They're toxic. You don't need negative energy in your life. These type of people won't help you grow: they will limit you.

What's the first (and only step) in achieving a bikini body? Put it on.

Yes, it's that simple. Your natural beauty is stunning compared to the intense, unreal images we see every day. What's more important is what's on the inside. Enjoy your summer, because you never know how many you have on this earth.

Life is too short to be at war with your body. Don't miss out on life because of an insecurity. Give your body love, and it will give it back. You should give your body a pat on the back. It is capable of so many wonderful things. Without it, your soul wouldn't be able to reside in the world.

It'll take some getting used to at first, but you will get there.

The road to being comfortable in your own skin isn't easy, but it is possible. As cliche as it is, difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations. I still struggle with self image every now and then, and it's quite common for women to feel this way. I believe that no woman should feel ashamed for wearing a swimsuit.

There is nothing wrong with you or your body. There is everything wrong with how society views women. Women are women, no matter their shape or size. Wear that swimsuit proudly; your confidence will shine.

What's my definition of a bikini body? Just a girl wearing a swimsuit enjoying her time out in the sunshine.

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