I Want Success But Maybe Not In The Way That You Think

I Want Success But Maybe Not In The Way That You Think

Success can be measured in so many different ways. Working towards an amazing career with a lifetime of factual success is wonderful, but that isn't all I want my life to be.
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What does success mean to you?

Do you think of being successful as having ultimate happiness or is it treasures? Do you feel fulfilled with popularity or do you want to be the best of the best at your career?

It's interesting because the word, "success" is such a wide term that it can be interpreted in several different ways. So many different ways, that people live their lives through success that is different from everyone else. What is right...what is wrong?

As a college student, trying to be involved in absolutely everything, keeping high grades, and applying to internships and networking can all become very foggy. As we are paying for an education and being pushed for greatness towards our future, it can be easy to lose track of the most important things in life.

I want success, but maybe not in the way you think.

No, I am not saying I don't want a kick a$$ job one day and no, I am not saying I am not working towards a financially stable lifetime ahead. But, wouldn't it be nice to take a breather and think about what will make us happy, how to keep our spirits high and what ways we can end this life and feel like we got the most out of it? I feel then I would've lived a successful life.

So what do I want? How am I going to work to be successful?

I am going to live my best life

Sound broad? Of course, it does, but I can explain. Thanks to my wonderful friend Emma Krell, I have embedded into my brain that each and every single day I need to wake up and know that I am going to live my best life possible. What does that entail?

While I do not have that 100 percent figured out, I have started by smiling a little more throughout the day, trying to focus on everyone as equals, learning more about people and taking negative situations and finding a positive twist. In a sometimes negative world, seeking positivity can be one of the best cures. Living by this ora and lifestyle has put a new attitude on my outlook and I feel like I have found success in my happiness by just being more positive and thankful.

I want to surround myself with happy and thankful people

I feel like I will live a successful life if I am surrounded by encouraging people. I personally am a strong woman when I feel love each and every day. I feed off of thankful people who see each day as a blessing.

I want to feel actual happiness each and every day

A goal I have is to feel within my being, actual happiness. I want radiating happiness each and every day. Whether it is a small moment I can cherish, a special person, or an entire day, I want to know that I am living in a place where I can love my life. I want to travel so I can love others' happiness in their cultures, I don't believe this life was meant to stay in one spot.

Success can be measured in so many different ways. Working towards an amazing career with a lifetime of factual success is wonderful, but that isn't all that I want my life to be.

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14 Mandela Effect Examples That Will Mess With Your Brain

The spelling "Chic-Fil-A" is a common google search and is often used by people on Twitter.
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Have you ever shared a vivid memory of something with many people, only to realize that event never happened?

You may be experiencing the Mandela Effect.

The Mandela Effect is one of the internet's recently popular conspiracy theories that has been messing with all of our brains. This phenomenon is when thousands of people with no relation to each other have the exact same collective misremembering of the same event.

The name, coined by Fiona Bloome, came about in 2013 when human rights activist Nelson Mandela died. Many people from all over the world were confused because they all had the same vivid memory of him dying in prison during the 1980's. People have even found old textbooks and biographies that state that Nelson Mandela did die in the 80's. Since then, many other collective false memories have sprung up and shaken up our reality.

There are a lot of different theories for why the Mandela Effect exists. Many believe that it is a result of time travel. Possibly some person who will live thousands of years from now traveled back to our time and changed little things in the middle of our lifetime.

Others think it may be due to the shifting of parallel universes.

Perhaps we all once lived in a universe where things were slightly different and we still remember it that original way but are now in a reality where things are different. Some people have even gone as far to say that the ending of the world in 2012 didn't seem to happen because it was simply the end of our current universe and we all shifted into a new one.

Psychologists credit the Mandela Effect to confabulation, the clinical term for memory defects. However, the fact that large numbers of people who have never met all have identical false memories continues to stump even the most educated psychologists.

No matter what the reasoning is, the Mandela Effect will make you question reality and send shivers down your spine. Here are just a handful of examples that you are sure to identify with.

1. The Berenstein Bears

This popular children's book and television show series was loved by many for years. Anyone you ask will tell you that the way I spelled “Berenstein" above is the correct spelling. What if I told you that's wrong? That's right, it's actually called the “Berenstain Bears."

If you go back and look at your old VHS tapes or books, it will say “Berenstain." There is no record of it ever being called “Berenstein."

Personally, I have never met a person who remembers it being spelled that way. This Mandela Effect example is one of the most popular because so many people vividly remember it being “Berenstein." Have we all just been remembering it wrong? Perhaps, but there is some evidence that it was once spelled “Berenstein."

The photo above is of a VHS tape that one Reddit user found in their attic. On the actual tape, “Berenstain" is printed, but on a sticker on the side (something likely added by the VHS manufacturer or distributing company) it says “Berenstein." Many people have used this as proof of the Mandela Effect because it shows that, at one point in time, it was “Berenstein."

Perhaps because that sticker was not owned directly by the company, it did not change when time travel or the shifting of the universe occured. People have also found old TV Guides and news articles that refer to the program as “Berenstein Bears," further enhancing the proof for this example.

2. The Flintstones

This one has tended to shift in and out of reality, which has freaked me out throughout my research. Just under one week ago, the "Flintstones" was spelled without a "T" as the "Flinstones."

Today I went to Google it and saw that it changed from "Flinstones" to "Flintstones" and was back to its original spelling. I might sound crazy saying that, but I'm not the only wannabe Mandela Effect expert that has kept up with it and noticed the constant shift. I am glad that the "t" is back because in my childhood I vividly remember it being spelled "Flintstones."

Most remember their last name being “Flintstones," which makes sense because flint is a type of rock and the family lives in the fictional town Bedrock, where everything is made of rock. However, if you went back and watched it last week, their last name was actually “Flinstone."

Today, it is once again "Flintstone." This example firmly backs up the theory of shifting parallel universes because it changes constantly. If you Google "Flintstones Mandela Effect," you will see that many other people have also noticed it switching.

3. Oscar Meyer

“My bologna has a first name. It's O-S-C-A-R. My bologna has a second name it's M-E-Y-E-R."

Everyone remembers this cutesy song from the Oscar Meyer commercials of our childhood. The commercial even spelled out the last name in the song. If you look back now, it isn't “Oscar Meyer," it is “Oscar Mayer."

The way that people pronounce the company's name is “Meyer," so it being “Mayer" makes no sense. It isn't pronounced “Oscar Mayer" like “John Mayer," it's pronounced “Oscar Meyer."

The pronunciation of the company name and the song just show that it once was “Meyer."

4. "Mirror Mirror On the Wall"

This line from Snow White is probably one of the most famous of any Disney movie. It's on t-shirts and has been referenced in other shows and movies. There is even a Snow White spinoff movie released in 2012 that was called “Mirror Mirror" after the famous line. What if I told you we were all remembering it wrong?

That's right, it isn't “mirror, mirror on the wall." In the movie, they say “magic mirror on the wall."

I have never met a person who remembers it this way. I even remember watching Snow White as recently as four or five years ago and it said “mirror, mirror." Why would there be so much merchandise that says “mirror mirror" and a spinoff movie with that name if it never was “Mirror Mirror on the Wall"?

5. Sex in the City

The beloved show about a woman named Carrie Bradshaw and her friends living in New York City is known by most who were original fans of the show as “Sex In The City."

Now, if you go back and watch the show it is called “Sex and the City." The producers never changed the name and there is no record left of it ever being called “Sex in the City."

This instance also has some proof that it once was called “Sex in the City." Above is a montage of clips from award shows where all of the presenters called the show “Sex in the City." It is highly unlikely that every single presenter got the show's name wrong.

6. "Life is like a box of chocolates."

This one is another famous line. In the movie Forrest Gump, Forrest says, “My momma always said, life is like a box of chocolates." That is a famous line that everyone who has ever seen the movie would know.

Well, if you go back and watch the movie, it says “life was like a box of chocolates." That doesn't even sound right with the quote or in the context of the movie. I've never met somebody who remembers it saying “was."

If you go on google and type in the beginning of the quote and stop at “life," the next suggested word is “is," not “was."

7. "It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood."

In the children's show, “Mister Rogers' Neighborhood," he always sings a song with the line, “It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood."

Everyone who watched this show as a child remembers it this way. Well, now the song says “It's a beautiful day in this neighborhood." That doesn't even sound right in the song and nobody remembers it this way that I know.

8. Interview with a Vampire

This 90's movie with Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise is pretty famous, and most people remember it being called “Interview with a Vampire." If you type in on google “interview with" the suggested ending is “a vampire."

Surprisingly, the movie is actually called “Interview with the Vampire." Again, this doesn't sound right.

9. Looney Toons

Another children's cartoon, the “Looney Toons" was loved by many. Its name, “Looney Toons" makes sense because “toons" is the ending of cartoons.

The show is actually called “Looney Tunes." “Tunes" doesn't make any sense in the context of the show. I personally loved this show as a child and have vivid memories of the title screen saying “toons."

10. Fruit Loops

This one is what started my interest in the Mandela Effect. I've always been a big fan of “Fruit Loops" and used to eat them often as a child. One day, I was walking through the grocery store only to see a box that said “Froot Loops" on it.

While “froot" makes more sense with the shape of the cereal and the word “loops," I had never remembered seeing it this way.


11. Febreeze


A popular household air freshener, “Febreeze" is seen by a lot of people every single day. Since when was it spelled “febreze" with only one “e"?

12. "Luke, I am your father."

One of the most famous movie lines of all time is this one from Star Wars.

The phrase “Luke, I am your father" can be found on t-shirts, hats, phone cases, and anything else in between. With the recent re-popularization of Star Wars, this phrase has been everywhere.

However, if you go back and watch Star Wars now, you'll see that Darth Vader doesn't even say this, he says “no, I am your father." This one is insanely obvious that it once, whether in another universe or in our same reality before it was changed, was “Luke, I am your father."

People who haven't even seen Star Wars all know this famous line. It has been quoted more times than I could ever count and referenced so many times.

13. Sketchers

This well-known sneaker brand has been word by many people for years. I specifically remember the brand name being spelled “Sketchers" but now it is actually “Skechers."


14. Chic-Fil-A

This one is an example that I vividly remember.

As a child, I used to go to Chic-Fil-A with my dad sometimes before he had work. After we stopped doing that, I had not been for while until high school, when I realized it was now spelled "Chick-Fil-A." I noticed this because I constantly spelled it wrong on texts when I would ask my friends to meet me there. I'm not the only one who remembers it this way.

The spelling "Chic-Fil-A" is a common google search and is often used by people on twitter. There are many people on Reddit who also recall "Chic-Fil-A" and remember joking around and saying that the chicken must be "chic" and fashionable.

If you are a regular human being, you were probably caught off guard by at least one of these changes. The Mandela Effect is crazy because so many people strongly remember these things the wrong way. You may identify with some examples and not with others.

This could be another explanation to back up the "shifting realities" theory because all of us could be in different realities at this very moment. There are many other Mandela Effect examples, like the placement of the country New Zealand and the absence of a famous portrait of King Henry VII of England holding a turkey leg, that you can find on the internet that many people also remember incorrectly.

The ones listed here are examples that have personally affected me, but there are many more that other people have noticed in their realities. Considering all of these different instances, it would be too much of a coincidence if the Mandela Effect was a simple case of confabulation.

The next time you do a double take after seeing something you remember differently, just know that our perception of reality may not be as straightforward as it seems.

Disclaimer: I am not stating that the Mandela Effect is 100% real because that can not be proven with today's technology. It is just an interesting theory that I enjoy researching.

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12 Unhealthy College Habits That Never Should Have Become Normalized

No, you shouldn't have to pull an all-nighter to pass every exam.

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College is a weird time in our lives, but it doesn't have to be bad for our health. Here are some trends I've seen on social media and watched my friends practice that really never should have become a "thing" for college students in the first place.

1. The "freshman 15."

Everyone has heard of the dreaded "freshman 15," where college freshmen gain 15 pounds because of access to all-you-can-eat dining halls. Rather than eating healthier options at the dining halls or, you know, only eating until you're full and not stuffing yourself, we've just accepted our fate to gain what's really a large amount of weight. Not a very healthy mindset.

2. Eating only junk food because we're "too poor" to buy real food.

For off-campus students, the theme is ramen and peanut butter & jelly sandwiches. This is really not how it needs to be. You can buy a bunch of romaine lettuce for around $1 at the grocery store I go to in my college town, and other produce like broccoli, potatoes, and apples are always cheap. Shop sales and keep your pantry stocked on staples like dry pasta, rice, beans, and other canned vegetables. It's not that expensive to eat decently.

3. Gorging on food at the dining hall just because you can.

This is what leads to the freshman 15. Just because you can eat whatever you want doesn't mean you should.

4. Procrastinating EVERYTHING.

I'm always ahead of my schoolwork, but all of the people in my classes push things right down to the wire. It creates unnecessary stress. Just get things done in advance so you don't have to worry.

5. Being generally unorganized and struggling to keep your life together. 

Actually using my planner is one of the best things I've done for myself in college so far. I don't know why it became popular for college students to be a hot mess all the time, but again, do what you can to avoid putting unnecessary stress on yourself.

6. Pulling all nighters, ever.

If you don't understand it by midnight, you won't understand it any better by five in the morning. You'll do so much better with less studying and more sleep than the other way around. Take the L and go to bed.

7. Waiting until the very last minute to start studying for your finals.

This is what typically leads to the aforementioned all-nighters. If you have an exam in two weeks, start studying NOW. Give yourself time to figure out what you need to focus on and get in contact with your professor or a tutor if necessary. Do yourself the favor.

8. Getting blackout drunk Friday and Saturday night...every weekend.

A lot of college students like to drink. That's fine, I get it, college is stressful and you just want to have a good time. But you don't have to go out every night of every weekend and drink so much you don't remember anything that didn't occur between Monday-Friday every week. Give yourself a break from drinking every so often.

9. Getting iced coffee before class and being late because of it.

I always make sure I get to campus early if I plan to get Starbucks, which I often do. It's rude to come in late, and it's detrimental to your education to consistently miss class. Your coffee can wait if you're running late. Plan better next time.

10.  Committing to 10 different extracurriculars because "it'll boost your resume if you have more on it!"

If you only participate in one club where you're the head of marketing and the treasurer, that will look SO much better than if you participated in five clubs but were just...there for all of them. Excel in one thing rather than being mediocre in many.

11.  Skipping class whenever you feel like it.

You can take the occasional mental health day, but if you're just being lazy, you're only hurting yourself. Go to class. You're paying a lot of money for it, after all.

12.  Spending every last penny you have to go somewhere for spring break (Daytona Beach, anyone?).

"Broke" college kids always end up taking the most extravagant spring break vacations. I'm sure it's fun and you'll cherish the memories, but wouldn't you cherish that $500 more if you saved it for things you actually need rather than living off of ramen for a month when you get home?

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