When we hear the word "wait" we get anxious! For a while and even now sometimes I struggle with waiting but God never fails to remind me that in his timing not a minute before and not a minute after everything will fall into place. So when waiting for what you deserve you have to be diligent and most importantly you have to be patient, don't settle for just anyone out of loneliness you'll end up in a world of trouble take it from me! Don't settle for guys who only hang out with you when it's convenient for them, don't fall for the late night texts or phone calls asking you to come over. If a guy can't properly date you he doesn't deserve you! If his idea of getting to know you is the inside of his bedroom every so often RUN. You are so precious and before you were even born God had someone handpicked for you who will love and adore you and never stop chasing you the RIGHT way. So, ladies I know this world sells us a pretty picture of what love supposed to be like. At one point in my life I was so used to spending time with guys at their apartment or meeting up at a party or at a friends house that when a guy properly asked me out to dinner and a movie and wanted to pay I was surprised and it shouldn't be that way this is the type of pursuing every girl should experience and if you don't, leave. You'll thank yourself later trust me. I didn't know my worth & that was my fault I allowed guys to treat me poorly and it's sad and embarrassing when I look back on it. I'm still learning to trust God's plan it's not easy especially when you get lonely or wanna text that guy that keeps trying to get with you but never asks you out properly. Mind over matter! Learn to love yourself enough to wait for what and who God has for you. While you're waiting get to know yourself what you want what you like pursue your dreams your goals. The "wait" doesn't have to be lonely, being alone does not mean you are lonely, independence is powerful and when you see it from that perspective soon you'll be so caught up in bettering yourself that when you finally do meet the one you'll think "wow that was fast"! I encourage you to stop settling, stop getting your hopes up on a guy who isn't even good enough for you in the first place and remember not everyone deserves your heart only one man on this earth does because he is the one God chose to love you and cherish you, always. So when you're rejected or treated poorly let them go, freely because once they're out of the way you're one step closer to meeting your soul mate.