Since my time studying abroad in London, I have met an array of people from different ethnic groups, cultures, and personalities. Despite all the negative rumors and safety tips I was told prior to coming to London, the people here are actually pretty cool. In fact, the same tips I was told not to do while being abroad, actually have helped in my favor when I did the opposite. So this article will be a list of the top things told to american students not to do while studying abroad. (This article does not promote or encourage that study abroad students not follow the safety guidelines given by their home or study abroad institution. The safety guidelines given to study abroad students are in place for your safety by trained staff members who know what they are doing. This article is simply just a personal reflection).
1. Never walk in a crowd to places:
This was one of the most emphasized rules to follow prior to my departure to London. As told by my school, walking in a big crowd attracts unwanted attention. Although this does in some cases attract attention, walking in a crowd of people has been something that everyone from tourist, or locals does here in London. I would also have to say that walking in a crowd could actually be beneficial if you're new to a certain area. This lessens the chances of getting lost and it ensures your safety as to traveling alone or in a small group.
2. Never Disclose that You're Not a Local:
People tend to think that disclosing that you're not a local could put you in danger while being abroad. However in my case this has had the opposite affect. In many cases when I have made an attempt to talk to people they either give me an attitude or just give me a crazy look. But after they hear my american accent, they become a lot more friendly and helpful. In some situations, disclosing that I am from America actually has gotten me into places for free and other things for free.
3. Never Discuss Politics:
In American culture, politics are touchy topic when meeting new people. But since being here in London, I have learned that the British do not treat politics as a taboo like Americans do and actually are aware of American politics probably more than your average American. For that same reason some are very interested in hearing an American's opinion on the candidates running for president.
4. Never Talk to Strangers:
Of course one should never talk to strangers, but if you're in a foreign country, pretty much everyone will be a stranger, so it is up to you to be a good judge of character when talking to strangers. Not to say that one should just talk to any and everybody that they see in streets. But having conversation with people you meet out in public could actually be to your benefit. By me doing so, I not only met new friends, but also have had people personally pay for my cab rides, give recommendations to places to visit, given me directions, and even met a ladies whole family (via family photo album).
P.S. Again, if you are a student studying abroad, it is very important that you follow the safety precautions told to you by your home and foreign institutions. They are people who are highly skilled in their jobs and know more about the culture and environment than you do.
