To The Heartbroken Girl

To The Heartbroken Girl

You're one step closer to finding your Prince Charming.
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To The Heartbroken Girl,

I know words don't help right now, but I hope these do.

Relationships are hard, trust me I know. One minute everything is perfect. The thought of him brings the biggest smile to your face, your stomach is full of butterflies, and your mind is picturing your forever together. But before long, complications arise. You start fighting, doing things behind each others' backs, and then poof, it's over just like that.

You cry and cry until you don't have any tears left and people may call you crazy, but honey that's normal.

Moving on isn't easy. Some days you will feel as if you've finally gotten past it, but before long it comes to haunt you again. Getting over a heartbreak takes time, lots of time.

I know your thinking of everything you lost right now, but take a step back and think of everything you've gained.

You've gained freedom.

The toxic relationship you've poured your heart and soul into is now gone. You have time to spend with your friends and family, cherish it. I know you may not want to at this very moment, but they love you. They love you unconditionally and are there for you every step of the way. Go to family dinners, parties with your friends, or travel the world. You have the freedom to choose. Do something, it doesn't matter what it is, just do something. Show him you're better off without him even if you don't believe it yet, sooner or later you will, I promise.

You've gained a better perspective on life.

I know boys are the last thing on your mind right now, but when you're ready to dive back into the crazy world of love, have peace of mind knowing that you have a better idea of the kind of man you want and need in your life. With every relationship comes new lessons learned. You're smarter now, better at making decisions, and a stronger woman because of it.

Honey, you've gone through hell and back and you're still breathing. You're a lot stronger than you think. So get up off your butt, stop wiping your tears, and quit rubbing your eyes, you have a life to live. You can do this.

"Pain makes you stronger, tears make you braver, and heartbreak makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future."

Just remember, you're one step closer to finding your Prince Charming, the love of your life, your soulmate. Don't give up. Chase your dreams. Find your one true love. I believe in you.

God has a plan for you and your life, He's saving you for someone special, I promise.

With love,

The girl who has been heartbroken too.

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An Open Letter To My Boyfriend's Mom

A simple thank you is not enough.
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Your son and I have been dating a while now and I just wanted to thank you for everything.

Wow, where do I start? Ever since the day your son brought me into your home you have shown me nothing but kindness. I have not one negative thought about you and I am truly thankful for that. I first and foremost want to thank you for welcoming me with open arms. There are horror stories of mothers resenting their son's girlfriends and I am blessed there is no resentment or harsh feelings.

Thank you for treating me like one of your children, with so much love but knowing exactly when to tease me.

Thank you for sticking up for me when your son teases me, even though I know it’s all in good fun it's always comforting knowing you have someone by your side.

Thank you for raising a man who respects women and knows how to take responsibility of mistakes and not a boy who is immature and doesn’t take responsibility.

Thank you for always including me in family affairs, I may not be blood family but you do everything you can to make sure I feel like I am.

Thank you for letting me make memories with your family.

There is nothing I value more in this world then memories with friends and family and I am thankful you want and are willing to include me in yours. I have so much to thank you for my thoughts keep running together.

The most important thing I have to thank you for is for trusting me with your son. I know how precious and valuable he is and I won't break his heart. I will do everything I can to make him happy. This means more than you could ever imagine and I promise I will never break your trust.

The second most important thing I must thank you for is for accepting me for who I am. Never have you ever wished I looked like another girl or acted like another girl. You simply love and care for me and that’s all I could ever ask. Every person in this world is a unique different person and understanding that means a lot.

The third most important thing I must thank you is teaching me how to one day in the future treat a potential girlfriend that I may interact with as a mother. I am not a mother, but I one day plan to be. If I ever have a son it is because of how you treated me that I am able to be a humble loving mother to this new face that could one day walk into my door. How you have treated me has taught me how I should one day be in the future and I thank you for that.

This may seem all over the place but that’s how my brain gets when I try and thank you for everything you have done for me. It’s all so much and even the little things are so important so I promise my scattered thoughts are all with good intentions and not meant to bombard you. I just want to get the idea across to you that you are important and special to me and everything you do does not go unnoticed.

Sincerely,

Your Son’s Girlfriend

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7 Inexpensive Gifts Girls Would Rather Receive This Valentine’s Day Instead Of Red Roses

Although, we're not opposed to red roses.

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My boyfriend knows how much I love red roses, but he also knows how often they're left unattended by our busy selves. They're pretty and usually inexpensive, but they just sit in a vase in his bedroom till they die.

We had the bright idea of cutting the dead rose petals off and placing them in a jar for decoration before but they become moldy and gross. In the end, it's kind of a waste of time and overall money that could've been used for something else.

Instead, I'd rather have practical, yet affordable gifts. I'm sure there's a lot of girls out there who feels the same way as I do, so boys, listen up. Here are 7 gifts you can get your valentine.

1. A gift card 

Get her a gift card to her favorite shop! Doesn't have to be a crazy amount, just enough for her to get herself something nice. Takes the guess work out of gift-getting anyways.

2. Personalized gift 

Nothing feels more personable than a personalized gift! I recently discovered a site called Uncommon Goods and they're a great place to find random gifts as well as personalized gifts for your boo.

3. DIY something 

This is just as personal as a purchased personalized gift from a website. This sh*t comes from the heart and she's gonna eat it up.

4. A scrapbook 

Either you create one of all your guys' best, precious memories or you get her one so she can do it herself!

5. Create a bucket list for the two of you to complete 

Easy!

6. Face masks 

Who doesn't love face masks? Plus, you can do one with her! It's a win-win situation!

7. Fake red roses 

If you must get her red roses, then at least get her ones that won't die after a few days!

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