Thoughts And Prayers Don't Stop Shootings

Thoughts And Prayers Don't Stop Shootings

I don't pretend to have all the answers, but I do have ideas.

After the Valentine's Day Shooting on February 14 at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, as well as every shooting before this one, I've seen so many posts about the victims and the families, wishing them well and asking their friends to send thoughts and prayers, myself included.

The important thing to know is that well wishes can't be the only thing that you do. Nothing happens because people have you in their thoughts. You need to take a stand and reach out.

We as a nation have a responsibility to take precautions to prevent these horrible tragedies from happening, and unfortunately, people are growing complacent. So many people have decided that nothing can be done to prevent this, but that is only true if no one tries to accomplish anything.

We need to reach out to our congressmen, our senators, and even our president. Reach out to everyone, let them know we are done being complacent when it comes to our safety. We need some form of gun control, be it limiting the selection of firearms we sell to the public, or stricter background checks on those attempting to purchase firearms, or whatever other suggestions you might have.

The time for silence is over. We as a nation need to take a stand for our future generations because the kids are going to be our future, and if they keep getting shot at by idiots with guns, how the hell are they supposed to change the world?

While my heart goes out to the families of the Parkland community, I want to send more than positive thoughts to them. I want to send hope. Hope for a change, and hope that this incident is the last school shooting we are going to see.

To the people of Parkland, Florida, we here at the Eastern Odyssey wish you the best of luck in attempting to recover from the trauma you have faced, and we hope that this horrible event will not have been in vain.

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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