To Those Not Graduating On Time

To Those Not Graduating On Time

Keep achieving your dreams not matter how long it takes.

Everyone says that college is the best four years of your life. You learn valuable lessons on how to become an adult and have some fun while doing so, but for some, college isn't that simple. I started college in the fall of 2014 with my twin sister and we ended up at the same university together. We were excited to start this journey together and finish in four years, but I learned that some (like myself) learn in different ways. This is perfectly normal. You should know that your mental health and well being should come first or it'll hinder the easiest of tasks. The things that have made roadblocks do not stop me. Ever.

As I sit here and write this, I have completed my third year of college and am off to my fourth. Next May, my sister will graduate and in 2019, I will also walk across the stage. As I've realized I am going to take a fifth year of school, I've started to understand that it is okay. As long as I finish the journey I started, I will be proud of myself. I have accomplished so much so far and there is no need for a timeline. No gets to put a timeline on my education, which, in turn, means I need to follow my heart and mind and keep going strong. I am learning to accept the things I cannot change, in hopes for my dreams to come true. Patience is key to moving forward. As I complete another semester in the fall, ending my junior year, I realize that it is one step closer to becoming a teacher.

To those not graduating on time: no matter what happened to prolong your graduation, it is okay. You will make it. Your dream is still out there for you to achieve it. It's not going anywhere. Just keep moving forward. It might seem like a million years away, but it'll be here before you know it. Just remember that you are doing this because you want to. You do your thing before worrying about what others think. The long nights and tough days will all be worth it. You should be proud of the work you have put into this. Don't ever give up on finding your passion and achieving it, because you are so close to that dream.

While I have two years to go, I know that the work I am putting in is my very best. I will one day get there and it'll be the proudest moment for myself. With my final words, I leave this advice to you: don't compare your journey to someone else's. Your journey is unique to you, so enjoy the ride. No one ever said that you need to be perfect. Having a few hiccups is not a big deal; it's a part of life that we need to accept. But, whatever the journey lies for you, I hope it takes you great places and even better memories.

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If You've Ever Been Called Overly-Emotional Or Too Sensitive, This Is For You

Despite what they have told you, it's a gift.

Emotional: a word used often nowadays to insult someone for their sensitivity towards a multitude of things.

If you cry happy tears, you're emotional. If you express (even if it's in a healthy way) that something is bothering you, you're sensitive. If your hormones are in a funk and you just happen to be sad one day, you're emotional AND sensitive.

Let me tell you something that goes against everything people have probably ever told you. Being emotional and being sensitive are very, very good things. It's a gift. Your ability to empathize, sympathize, and sensitize yourself to your own situation and to others' situations is a true gift that many people don't possess, therefore many people do not understand.

Never let someone's negativity toward this gift of yours get you down. We are all guilty of bashing something that is unfamiliar to us: something that is different. But take pride in knowing God granted this special gift to you because He believes you will use it to make a difference someday, somehow.

This gift of yours was meant to be utilized. It would not be a part of you if you were not meant to use it. Because of this gift, you will change someone's life someday. You might be the only person that takes a little extra time to listen to someone's struggle when the rest of the world turns their backs.

In a world where a six-figure income is a significant determinant in the career someone pursues, you might be one of the few who decides to donate your time for no income at all. You might be the first friend someone thinks to call when they get good news, simply because they know you will be happy for them. You might be an incredible mother who takes too much time to nurture and raise beautiful children who will one day change the world.

To feel everything with every single part of your being is a truly wonderful thing. You love harder. You smile bigger. You feel more. What a beautiful thing! Could you imagine being the opposite of these things? Insensitive and emotionless?? Both are unhealthy, both aren't nearly as satisfying, and neither will get you anywhere worth going in life.

Imagine how much richer your life is because you love other's so hard. It might mean more heartache, but the reward is always worth the risk. Imagine how much richer your life is because you are overly appreciative of the beauty a simple sunset brings. Imagine how much richer your life is because you can be moved to tears by the lessons of someone else's story.

Embrace every part of who you are and be just that 100%. There will be people who criticize you for the size of your heart. Feel sorry for them. There are people who are dishonest. There are people who are manipulative. There are people who are downright malicious. And the one thing people say to put you down is "you feel too much." Hmm...

Sounds like more of a compliment to me. Just sayin'.

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Writing Saved My Sanity

Write it all down when you can't talk to anyone.


I love writing.

I have since elementary school, and I've dreamed of becoming a published author. I started off writing stupid plays in elementary school, then it grew it almost writing a full-blown novel in middle school. I have no idea where that thing went to. It was all notebook paper and bad writing. In high school, my writing was kinda pushed to the side so I could focus on school. When I entered college, I started writing small poems about my now ex-boyfriend.

I was scared to express myself to him sometimes, the intensity of my feelings for him scared me. So instead of telling him, I wrote them down. When I tried to share them with him, he hated it. He thought writing down feelings was weird and creepy. So I didn't share anything else with him. When we finally broke up for good, everything just poured out of me. What I couldn't express verbally, I wrote or typed out.

I always have ideas flowing through my head. They never cease and I wouldn't want them to. Writing gives me an escape, from stress, work, school, or fights. It gives me a place to vent and to be open with everything. This is a reason I love writing for Odyssey, not only has this place brought me amazing friends but revived my love for writing. I'm never without my notebook anymore, I'd get distracted in class by an idea and have to write I think then and there.

I love sharing my more personal writing with close friends, especially my poems as of late. I found that I have a voice for young women who find themselves in a toxic relationship much like mine was. I want to speak out and show them that you can grow from the bullshit. It may take some time, but you will be better.

Writing saved my sanity. It allows me to express myself without having to use my actual voice. Anyone who knows me, knows I hate public speaking. I tend to psych myself out leading up to it. My current projects include writing for Odyssey every week, I'm in the process of trying to continue my short stories, and I'm excited to announce that I'm currently working on my very first poetry book!

Writing has given me so much, and I'm so looking forward to making a career out of something I love so much.

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