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This is our degree Mom and Dad, not just mine.

To the graduates that dedicate the success of their education to their parents, this one is for you.

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This is our degree Mom and Dad, not just mine.

A college degree does not make you more important, worthy, or successful than others. My father provided for his family without getting a degree and even owns a business. My mother is a brilliant and wise woman who if you ask me is too good for college. My mom and dad knew everything that they needed to know to make a successful life together. Yet they wanted a different life for their daughter. They never forced me to attend college, but knew that getting my degree would mean I had a back up plan to whatever passions I decided to chase as an adult.

To the parents that did not let financial problems stop me from pursuing something greater than myself, thank you. I began to get scholarships but even those were not enough. My parents took out their own loan just so I could go to college. My parents let me stay with them through college and would even tell me not to stress about finding a job because passing school was more important.

To the parents that saw my dreams as actual realities before I did, thank you. Though they first questioned when I changed my major like any other parent would have, they did not stop cheering me on. My minor is in Criminal Justice and my father would tell me every time SVU came on that I would be able to do what they were doing. I would tell him it was impossible to get to that level and in complete seriousness he would say that I could make it. They had more hope than I had most of my college career, and because of that I was able to continue and finish my degree.

To the parents that pushed me when my motivation level was at zero, thank you. I know you guys have your own issues and struggles, yet you put all of that aside to attend to me and make sure that I was happy and healthy. You pushed me even when I did not want to be pushed and challenged me like no one else has or ever will. You tell me how it is yet you do it with love and care, thank you.

To the parents that comforted me when I had mental breakdowns about college financially and was lost as to what I would do next. You guys supported me when I dropped out of college for a semester and I know were probably scared yourself wondering if I would ever finish. Meanwhile, you never pushed me to finish. You were there at the end of the day with hugs and home cooked meals.

To the parents that created the heart I have now, thank you. It is because of you guys and the way you raised me that I possess the passions I do now. You told me to be confident, sassy, creative, and bold. You guys remind me everyday that I have a voice and that my voice is important. Because of you guys I found the passion to help those who do not have a voice.

To the parents who did not finish college, this degree is for you and me. I could have never done this by myself. Your help and hard work will never go unnoticed. Because of you guys, I get to dream even bigger and accomplish goals I had no intention of reaching.

Graduating college would have been impossible without my parents. 

To the parents who supported their child to graduate, I love you. Thank you for never giving up on me.

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