One way — the best way in my opinion — to make sure you don't lose the people you care about is to make sure they know how much you care about them. Everybody needs reassurance at times. It's human nature, and nothing feels better than hearing from somebody you love that they appreciate you and love you too.
There are plenty of ways to say "I love you" without saying those three words. Think about the last time you said any of these things to the people you love.
"I see all that you do for me, and I appreciate it."
If you love somebody, you never keep score. But you should always thank them and make sure they know that what they do for you doesn't go unnoticed.
"Tell me about your day."
If someone is important to you, you're probably the first person they want to tell things to. Asking this simple question — and making sure to listen to the response — makes them feel closer to you and like you're a part of their life.
This one can be especially crucial for people in long-distance friendships or relationships.
"I'm proud of you."
"I miss you."
These three little words can change someone's entire day.
"I'm lucky to have you."
"Do you need to talk about anything?"
Sometimes, it's hard for people to openly start talking about things that are bothering them or things that they're struggling with. If someone you love seems off, asking this question can be a good opportunity to make them feel like they can talk to you about whatever is on their mind.
"What can I do to improve our relationship?"
This is something relationship counselors preach about, and it applies to relationships of any kind. It's so important, and your relationships will only benefit from this conversation!
"Is there anything I can do to make your day better?"
"I wish you were here."
"I don't want to lose you."
"You look really good today."
This one is super easy and not as deep, but it still makes someone feel really good — especially when they aren't expecting it.
"When can I see you next?"
This is so underrated! It feels so good to know someone is looking forward to seeing you again. We stan effort!
"You make me so happy."
"You're doing amazing."
"I hope you have a good day."
This is super easy to text or tell someone in the morning. It lets them know you're thinking about them and sets up everyone to be in a good mood for the day!
"I'm sorry I don't say these things more often."
These are all such small sentences that hold so much meaning. Believe me when I say hearing these things from the right person at the right time can change everything for somebody.
It takes seconds to say/text these things, so there really is no excuse for not doing it.
Before you think, "Well, they never say this stuff to me either," stop and think about the last time you said one of these things to someone. Sometimes, it takes you to start. Your relationship is worth more than your pride.
