The Unwritten Rules Of Frat Parties

The Unwritten Rules Of Frat Parties

Read these rules once, and you'll be set for the rest of college.

Ah, Fraternities. Whether you’re in college, out of college, or about to go to college, we all know what they are. The way they’re depicted in TV and movies is definitely a bit flawed from the real, genuine gross feeling you get in your stomach upon walking into a door where you can feel every single guy in a 10-foot radius checking you out.

Now, besides the puke, beer, and people that you WILL see passed out on that frat house floor (that probably hasn’t been cleaned in who knows how long,) you’ll need to survive the partygoers. And if you’re anything like me, you’ll observe every person that comes near you, in hopes of figuring out how to navigate this strange place.

People will be sweaty. People will talk to you. People will touch you. People will be drunk. You will inhale at least two cigarettes worth of secondhand smoke. You might have a good time.

Here are the ~official~ unwritten rules of frat parties, at any school, by me:

1. Have fun, but not too much fun.

Listen, parties are for fun! Everyone checks out the frats because although disgusting, they're a lot of fun if you're with the right group. Have fun, but don't get trashed. Nothing is worse than checking your phone the next morning and seeing that you confessed your undying love for your ex.

2. Always go in a group.

Frats are notorious for being unsafe. While that's not always the truth, do it just in case.

3. If you want to get in, don't bring your guy friends.

Ratio is a word that I only thought worked in math until I got to college. Ratio is EVERYTHING. For every x amount of girls, they will allow one guy. That's gonna suck for your guy friends that tag along that either can't get in or have to pay a WHOPPING $10.

4. DO NOT (EVER) wear cute shoes to a frat house.

From personal experience, don't wear your favorite pair of white vans to the party. They are no longer white. Trust me.

5. Don't drive.

Don't drink and drive. Even if it's a sip. Take an uber. Get a ride home. Uber. Lyft. Walk. End of story.

6. Know what house you're at.

Okay, nothing is more embarrassing than saying you're at Sigma Chi when you're actually at Sigma Alpha Epsilon. You don't need to learn the Greek alphabet; literally ask anyone there.

7. Don't post about where you are.

Getting into a frat before it's full is hard enough as it is. If people see where you are, they're going to show up. That makes it harder for more people to get in and, more importantly, makes it easier for police to show up. C'mon, no one wants a record with the police.

8. Most importantly, make friends.

The friends you make at parties are either some of your good friends or just randoms that you add on Snapchat and never really speak to again, nor even know if they go to your school.

Hopefully, this is helpful, whether it's your first frat encounter or your millionth! Stay safe, kids! Happy partying!

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22 New Things That I Want To Try Now That I'm 22

A bucket list for my 22nd year.


"I don't know about you but I'm feelin' 22," I have waited 6 long years to sing that and actually be 22! Now 22 doesn't seem like a big deal to people because you can't do anything that you couldn't do before and you're still super young. But I'm determined to make my 22nd year a year filled with new adventures and new experiences. So here's to 22.

1. Go sky diving.

What's crazier than jumping out of a plane? (Although I'll probably try indoor skydiving first.)

2. Go cliff jumping/diving.

I must be the only Rhode Islander who hasn't gone to Jamestown and jumped off a cliff.

3. Ride in a hor air balloon.

Up, up and away.

4. Try out skiing.

Cash me in the next Olympics, how bout dat.

5. Try out snow boarding.

Shawn White, I'm coming for you.

6. Go bungee jumping.

Because at least this time I'll be attached to something.

7. Go to Portugal.

I mean I'm Portuguese so I have to go at some point, right?

8. Go to Cape Verde.

Once again, I'm Cape Verdean so I have to go.

9. Vist one of the seven wonders of the world.

I mean hey, Egypt's on, my bucket list.

10. Try out surfing.

It's only natural that somebody from the Ocean State knows how to surf.

11. Learn a new langauge.

Because my little bit of Portuguese, Spanish and Latin isn't cutting it anymore.

12. Travel to a state that I've never been to before.

Fun fact: I've only been to 17 of the 50 states.

13. Go paddle boarding.

Pretty boring but I've never done it.

14. Go scuba diving.

I'm from the Ocean State so I guess I should see the ocean up close and personal.

15. Learn how to line dance.

There's actually a barn in my state that does line dancing, so this one will definitely get crossed off.

16. Go kayaking.

All this water around me and I haven't done a lot of the water activites.

17. Stay the night in a haunted hotel room.

I bet if I got my friends to come with me, it would be like the Suite Life of Zach and Cody episode, minus the ghost coming out of the wall but you never know.

18. Get my palms read.

Because who doesn't want to know their future.

19. Go to a medium.

Like a medium that can communicate with people that have died.

20. Take a helicopter ride.

Air plane: check Helicopter:....

21. Sleep under the stars.

Because sleeping in a tent is more like glamping than camping

22. Just to try new things in my everyday life.

Whether it's trying a new restaurant, getting something different at my usual restaurants, changing my usual style, going on the scary rides at amusement parks, and bringing things I used to do back into my life now.

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Imagine hanging with a couple of friends, then, they all take out their cell phones to message other people.

Are we all so addicted to our cell phones, that we can't have a group hangout without checking our phones?

Are we all that boring?

It seems like that is the case.

Having a phone out and making conversations with someone who's not your parent or legal guardian can be



Well, it seems the person you're hanging out with isn't finding you interesting enough to keep their phones

away while you guys hang out.

I remember when I had a flip phone but I didn't text many people.

I didn't have a problem being off my phone while socializing. These days,

the more social media people have, the more they are on it and being anti-social.

Which, leads me to the question, "Are we even more anti-social now?"


When you're online, people speak through keyboards without using their voice and because of that, people

can make each other sound articulate even though they are just thinking of phrases to say.

For me, the more social media I use, the more I don't even speak to people in reality.

Half the time, I don't know what to say when people are being rude, or if I want to ask a crush to hang out

in person, or how to make conversation with a professional in a field I'm interested in.

In addition to that, I used be really insecure about myself but I've gotten to love myself even more.

But, I do get self-conscious if someone I'm talking to is suddenly on their phone for an hour or so.

Then I question, "Am I too boring?"

I know I'm not but that's how i felt.

If you or someone you know is constantly on their phone while speaking to you, ask them politely to put

down their phone if it isn't an emergency.

We would like your full attention.

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