Taylor Swift's Song "22" Is Exactly How I Feel At The Age Of 22

Taylor Swift's Song "22" Is Exactly How I Feel At The Age Of 22

"It's miserable and magical"

When you turn 22 you have the choice to be basic and use Taylor Swift’s lyrics for your Instagram caption. I personally chose to do it because you only turn 22 once and I drink way too much Starbucks to care if people think I’m basic. However, I haven’t only been listening to her song on repeat to pick my favorite verse for my Instagram caption. I’ve come to the conclusion that not only is the song catchy, but T-Swift actually managed to describe how I feel about my life at the age of 22 in 3 minutes and 50 seconds.

Being 22 is being happy with yourself and the world around you. I haven’t been this happy with who I am in a long time. I spent way too much time trying to find other people to make me happy. I finally discovered the art of loving myself and it has made me the happiest I have been in a while.

Being 22 is freeing. I had this moment where I kind of finally realized that my life is mine. I know that sounds crazy because my life has always been mine. But I feel like I’m at an age where it’s really mine. I can do whatever I want to do. Just because it doesn’t fit one of those pre-made molds that society has for us doesn’t mean it’s not the right fit for me. I’m done trying to squeeze myself into a mold that isn’t right for me just because it’s what I was always told it’s the way things are supposed to be.

Being 22 is confusing. I’ve had so many moments of clarity recently about who I am and what I want to do with my life. I have all these dreams and plans for my life that aren’t exactly realistic. When you’re a little kid and you tell an adult what you want to be when you’re older they always tell you to reach for the stars.

But when you’re in your twenties and you actually reach your arm out towards the stars they usually tell you to do something more practical. There is a plan that you’re supposed to follow; go to school, get good grades, get a good job. They don’t want you to sell yourself short but they don’t want you to dream too big either. If this life is mine then why do I still feel like so many people have a say in what I do?

Being 22 can be lonely. At this point in my life, I don’t have a relationship with some people who I thought would always be in my life. Finding out who you really want to be usually results in losing the people who prohibit you from being that person. This sounds like a good thing and it kind of is. I mean, I don’t want anyone in my life who isn’t going to help me grow and be the best version of myself I can be.

At this point, I’m cutting out the negative people. It has made me feel pretty lonely and it’s been hard for to remember that it’s actually for the best. I’m making room in my life for the right people.

I’m looking forward to the year ahead of me. I believe that I am most definitely “happy, free, confused, and lonely in the best way”. Thanks to Taylor Swift for helping me explain how I feel. Here’s to forgetting about the deadlines, dressing up like hipsters, eating breakfast at midnight, and of course dancing like we’re 22.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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After 'Extremely Wicked' And 'The Stranger Beside Me,' We Now Understand The Criminal Mind Of Ted Bundy

1 hour and 50 minutes, plus 550 pages later.


Netflix recently released a movie in May called "Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil, and Vile" (2019), based on the life of Ted Bundy from his girlfriend's viewpoint.

In 1980, an author and former Seattle police officer, Ann Rule, published a book about her experience and personal, close friendship with Ted Bundy, called "The Stranger Beside Me."

These two sources together create an explosion of important information we either skim over or ignore about Ted Bundy. Watching this movie and reading this book can really open your eyes to who Ted Bundy really was. Yeah, there are the confession tapes on Netflix, too, but these other things can really tie it all into one big masterpiece of destruction.

I swear, it will blow your mind in different ways you never thought possible.

In the movie, "Extremely Wicked", Zac Efron stars as the infamous Ted Bundy, America's most notorious serial killer. He portrayed the murderer who kidnapped, killed, and raped 30 women or more. Personally, he made a great Ted Bundy, mannerisms and all. Lily Collins stars as Ted's girlfriend who was easily manipulated by Ted and believed that he was innocent for years.

The movie is told in the order that Liz, Ted's girlfriend, remembers.

In the book, "The Stranger Beside Me", Ann Rule writes about Ted Bundy, who used to be her old friend. They met while working at a crisis center in the state of Washington and were close ever since. Like Liz, Ann believed he was innocent and that he was incapable of these horrific crimes.

Ted Bundy had made both Liz and Ann fools. He easily manipulated and lied to both women about many things for years, his murders being "one" of them.

Okay, so we all know that Ted Bundy was absolutely guilty as hell and totally murdered those women. 30 women or more. He literally confessed to that, but researchers and authorities believe that number to be way higher.

But... you must know that the movie and the book tell two different stories that lead to the same ending. That's why it's so intriguing.

At one point, I couldn't stop watching the movie. Then, I bought Ann Rule's book and was completely attached to it. I couldn't put it down.

For me, Ted Bundy is interesting to me. Unlike most young girls today, I don't have a thing for him nor do I think he's cute or hot. I know that he used his charm and looks to lure women into his murderous trap. That's why it's so hard to understand why this movie and book created a new generation of women "falling in love" with Ted Bundy.

GROSS: He sodomized women with objects. He bludgeoned women with objects or his own hands. He was a necrophile. Look those up if you have not a clue of what they mean. That could change your mind about your own feelings for Ted Bundy.

After "Extremely Wicked" and "The Stranger Beside Me", I now understand the criminal mind of Ted Bundy. He was insane, but he was also smart, put together, educated, charming, and lots more. That's why I'm so interested in why his brain was the way it was.

The criminal mind is an interesting topic for me anyway, but for Ted Bundy, it was amazing to learn about.

I highly recommend both the movie and the book I quickly read in two weeks! If you want answers, they are there.

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