Why The Taylor Swift Groping Case Is So Important

Why The Taylor Swift Groping Case Is So Important

She drew the line and David Mueller crossed it.

Taylor Swift has a lot of power with being a celebrity and popular pop singer, and she is known for speaking up for what she believes in. Sexual assault is a big deal, and Taylor Swift helped draw a line in the sand to show everyone when enough is enough.

Swift spent the past four years battling it out against DJ David Mueller after he was fired. He made a case against Swift's mother, Andrea, saying she had him fired because of his alleged groping of her daughter. The picture easily shows Mueller's hand resting on Taylor's butt as the picture is taken. That was all the way back in 2013.

Taylor Swift only sued Mueller for a mere dollar. That is right, one dollar. She doesn't need the money, and she knows that. She solely had this case to prove her point. Putting your hand on some young women's ass while taking a picture at a backstage meet and greet is in fact, wrong.

The picture clearly shows what Mueller is doing, and his disgusting, perverted smile shows a little bit of pride. It absolutely disgusts me how he thought it was okay to do something like that. Like, what in the hell is your problem, you low life piece of scum.

Taylor said that she is lucky to be able to afford the ability to go through a court case like this one to prove Mueller of his wrong doings. She understands not everyone can afford that and hopes that justice comes to life for them, as well.

Swift really showed what the right thing to do was. She did not want, nor need, financial compensation for the grotesque action. You might think my use of descriptors is a little over the top for some old guy's hand on a pop singer's ass, but it is never right for someone to touch someone without consent. Male or female, young or old.

You might say that, "Well, it wasn't rape." Yeah, well, Charlottesville isn't World War 3 (yet), but it still isn't okay. When in time did someone strip the meaning from the human body to be purely sexual, and free for anyone to touch? It is completely wrong, inconsiderate, repulsive, disgusting, and many more adjectives I could use to describe it, but I'll stop at that small list.

Taylor is also reportedly planning to donate money to programs that help people that are victims of sexual assaults. Taylor's lawyer, Doug Baldridge, was praising Swift for her heroic actions and her ability to show everyone when enough is enough. It is 2017 and hopefully people are starting to get the message. And hopefully, Mueller gets the message and the shaming he deserves for the rest of his life. Women shouldn't be subjected to objects, nor men. Taylor Swift is showing us that no matter what, standing up for yourself will pay off in the end.

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Some Thoughts On Johnny Mandel's Song, "Suicide Is Painless"

What was Johnny Mandel thinking when he wrote this song?
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Back in the 1970's, there was a television program titled M.A.S.H. - It was a show based on the Army, with future movie and TV star Alan Alda, and Jamie Farr, who played the part of Max Klinger - He who wore dresses in the Army, and he who wanted desperately to get a Section 8 and go home. Gary Burghdoff, who played Corporal Radar O'Reilly was the only original to be in the show from start to finish. And what a finish it was. The "Going Home" episode of M.A.S.H. is still the most widely viewed television program in history. In history. As in the most watched ever in the world. Even to this day.

The title song was "Suicide is Painless" by an artist named Johnny Mandel. That song is still popular today. Anyone that is over the age of 30 will recognize the song. They will recognize the music. And they will recognize where it comes from. But what they don't realize is that the title of the song is the farthest from the truth you could ever imagine. Suicide is anything but painless.

We all know someone that has lost someone to suicide. Whether it is due to depression, due to anger, due to hating their life, due to frustration, alcohol, drugs or anything else that might be remotely connected to it, we have dealt with, are familiar with, or know someone that has dealt with suicide. I have lost four friends to it in my lifetime. And if you were to ask me? Suicide is anything but painless.

We've heard the comments that someone took the easy way out. We've heard the insults that they didn't think of someone else before they took their own life. We've heard the statements that they didn't care about anyone because if they did, they wouldn't have done what they did. But what we don't realize, whether it's me, you or the man in the moon, is that suicide is anything but painless.

We don't know what the person is going through. We don't know what a person is experiencing the minute, hour or second before they decide that their life isn't worth living anymore. And when they finally decide to take that final step across to the other side, we don't know what they are feeling, we don't know what they experience, and we don't know what they are thinking just before the lights go out. And the tunnel goes black.

Suicide is anything but painless.

When Johnny Mandel wrote the song in 1970, I'm not sure if he was thinking about what it might do to people. I don't know if he was thinking about suicide when he wrote the song. We don't know what he was thinking long-term. Did he hate his life, hate who he was, and think about turning the lights off? Or did he just put the song together not thinking about the impact it would have nearly 50 years later?

Did he know what it would make people think about, how they would be remembered, or how that song would impact the lives of those listening to the song or watching the video on M.A.S.H. as it played night after night on television? The show itself became one of the most popular shows of an era, and one of the most popularly syndicated shows ever played on network television. It spawned a half a dozen major stars. And it also created a theme song that has lasted many lifetimes.

When Johnny Mandel wrote "Suicide Is Painless" was he thinking about how the person felt on the receiving end of death or was he thinking about what it would mean when someone finally put an end to it all? Because he could not have been thinking what it would do to others who were left behind after someone took their own life. He couldn't have been thinking about how it would impact the lives of thousands or more when someone died. Someone that was close to a friend, a neighbor, a relative, a cousin, an uncle, an aunt, a brother, a sister, a mom or a dad.

Is suicide painless?

And if so? For who?

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6 Books Everyone Should Read

The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page.

I have been a book nerd for as long as I can remember; when I was six years old, my sister forced me to read Harry Potter, and since then, I have picked up every book I can find with an avarice like no other.

Here are some of my book recommendations:

1. The Book Thief by Markus Zusak

The Book Thief details a young girl named Liesel's journey of adapting to a new life during World War II after her mother is forced to relinquish custody of her and give her to a couple in Germany. She grows up while watching the horror of the Nazi regime, and her whole life is altered when her family harbors a Jewish fist fighter named Max. She finds comfort in learning to read alongside her foster father and eventually begins to steal books in order to further her reading.

I read this book in two days despite it being over 500 pages; it is told from the perspective of Death, which gives it a unique viewpoint and makes it even more intriguing. I found myself very drawn to Liesel because of her determination to continue reading.

2. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut

Slaughterhouse Five is one of the biggest mind-messing books I have ever read. Vonnegut's most popular work, it documents the life of Billy Pilgrim in a non-sequential way (as he claims he has come "unstuck" in time), showing scenes from his old age followed by fond childhood memories. It is one of the most famous anti-war books to date because it showed the horrors soldiers had to face during World War II, as Billy Pilgrim was Prisoner of War when the Allies bombed Dresden.

3. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger

You all know it, and you all either love it or hate it.

To the people that complain about how nothing happens in this book, I concur that there is little action, but that is the whole point. The book portrays Holden Caulfield's dissatisfaction with life and his constant thoughts about everything. He is aware of the "phoniness" of the world around him, but also realizes he is powerless to stop it. Nothing happens in the book because nothing is happening around him.

4. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith

I originally didn't like this book when I first started it, but grew to love it. It tells the story of a young girl named Frances growing up in one of the poorest parts of Brooklyn, and the struggles of her family to survive. Although it may sound like a basic coming-of-age story, I cannot explain the power and passion Smith's words bring about.

5. Harry Potter (series) by JK Rowling

The Harry Potter series has been passed down through all my siblings, and it has something that has bonded us like nothing else. Harry Potter finds out he's a wizard and attends Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry, while dealing with the fact that as a young child he successfully beat the most powerful and evil wizard of all time.

Read the books before watching the movies!

6. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury

Fahrenheit 451 is a dystopian novel in which all books are banned and anyone found with books will have their houses set on fire by firemen. Crazy, right?

I found this one to be slow at first, but it soon picked up and actually ended up being one of the best books I have ever read.

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