Let's Talk about The Social Hierarchies In School

Let's Talk about The Social Hierarchies In School

I'm going to miss some of the graduating seniors.

Social hierarchies have rule our lives from the time of the feudal system till today, whether we realize it or not. In elementary school, girls had cooties and we all remember that rhyme, "boys go to Jupiter to get more stupider, girls go to college to get more knowledge..." right? So forget a girl interacting with the opposite sex, and vice versa. This is where it all begins.

Flash forward to middle school. You have the fifth graders, sixth graders, the seventh and eighth graders. It was the common protocol that the fifth graders do not sit near the eighth graders. Why? I have no idea. Eighth graders are higher in the social class than the pre-pubescent fifth grader. So it all makes sense...or does it?

Now we're in high school. One word: cliques. Ugh, I can hear Janis telling Cady about it in the lunch room (Mean Girls reference). More relevant in my time, I am listening to "stick to the status quo" in my head. There's the basketball players, the theatre pros, the bakers, those who pop and lock and jam and break (still deciding if it's legal), and of course, the cello player.

Flash forward the "best four years of your life" (I'm totally kidding) and step into college. A time of independence and growth. Something I noticed her is that (for the most part, cause some people never grow up), that imaginary line of not being able to talk to someone because they are not in the same grade as you went away. Even the word "grade" went away. It's not 13th, 14th, 15th, and 16th grade anymore. That just sounds weird.

I look forward to my every other day chats with my friend who's a sophomore in my math class. I enjoy talking to the other freshman my age as well. I've made a few friends who are currently juniors, either boys or girls. I've become friendly with faculty even though I have only been at this school a couple of months, and I have a few friends who are currently seniors. I see them literally every day. They are not disgusted by the fact that I am a freshman. Because we all are in college for a common goal, and we all have paid our tuition to walk these paths and take these classes and join these clubs.

At one point, one of them took me "under their wing" and helped me when I needed it the most. Furthermore, I call one of them my "college big sister," because we see each other all the time because we share so many of the same interests. (You know who you are), and I look forward to our chats and love running into her. I'm going to miss the graduating seniors, but they are all on their ways to amazing careers and I'm more proud of them then upset, and I can only hope I keep in touch with them as we all move on with our lives.

Social classes were a thing of the past. We have to teach children that it doesn't matter who you hang out with. As long as it's the right crowd and everyone is comfortable, age or grade status should not have to play a role.

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If College Majors Were Types Of Coffee

Different coffee styles have different personalities - just like college students.

Everyone knows college students love their coffee. Without this delicious drink of pure happiness, college students wouldn’t be able to stay up late cramming for exams, hanging out with friends, or having a late-night Netflix binge. Just like coffee, there are many different types of college students, from pre-med to English to history. Here are the different majors, described as different styles of coffee.

1. Chemistry - Macchiato

A lot has to go in to make the perfect chemistry major: just like a perfect macchiato. The double shot of espresso is needed for the all night study sessions crammed in before exams 2-3 days a week, and the small dot of foamed milk is the passion that every one of these students have for their area of expertise: whether it’s, pre-med, research, forensics, or any other type of chemistry.

2. Art – Latte

Lattes are made with espresso, steamed milk, and milk froth on top. The milk froth is usually used for a beautiful decoration on the top. Like art majors, lattes can be seen in all different shapes and styles. Creativity is key in art majors and latte’s alike!

3. Education – Frappuccino

Frappuccinos are the milkshake to the coffee world, filled with many different sugary flavors, whipped cream, and sauces. The sugar-induced rush will help you keep up with the children during the day, and the small amount of coffee will keep you up to make plenty of lesson plans!

4. Music – Café Americano

A café Americano is made with two things: espresso and hot water. Music majors are made with two things: music and practicing. The two both require simplicity yet perfection and have no time for excessive things (like milk or free time).

5. Accounting – Iced Coffee

Too much ice leaves the drink watery. Not enough ice leads to a lukewarm, unsatisfying cup of coffee. Only the perfect ratio of coffee to ice makes this drink the ideal drink for accounting majors.

6. History – Flat White

With flat white coffee, you either love it or hate it – just like history. Neither are common, but those who love history or flat whites are 100% compassionate about it.

6. Biology – Mocha

Biology majors need coffee: a lot of it. Hence, the double shot of espresso. Biology majors also need sweetness, hence the chocolate in a mocha. Biology is the perfect blend of the lab and the real world, just like a mocha coffee is the perfect blend of chocolate and coffee. Biology majors and mochas make the world go around and bring a little bit of sweetness to this bitter world.

7. Communications – Affogato

To the outside world, communication majors seem perfectly put together. However, a lot goes into being a good communication major: just like a lot goes into making the perfect affogato. From making the perfect shot of espresso to making the perfect ice cream to pair, communication majors and affogato are perfect together: just like coffee and ice cream.

8. Psychology – Decaffeinated

Psychology majors know the importance of sleep and know that caffeine messes up your sleep cycle. Decaffeinated coffee is perfect for psych majors – and for their sleep.

9. English – a shot of espresso

Most types of coffee begin with espresso. Just like espresso, most of our civilization begins with the English language. English majors and espresso alike are stable to live.

10. Business – Espresso con Panna

Espresso con Panna is a simple shot of espresso with whipped cream. Business majors are a stable, just like the espresso, but add a little pizzazz to life: the whipped cream. Business majors know how to do work and have fun, just like the con Panna.

11. Nursing – Ristretto

Ristretto is a smaller amount of liquid with a higher concentration of caffeine. Nursing students are constantly on the go and need energy without spending a lot of time drinking a load of coffee – and having to frequently use the bathroom to get rid of it. The ristretto is perfect for any and all nursing majors!

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Things I Miss Now That I'm Home From College Again

There are so many reasons to be glad that the school year is over, but if you've done it right... there are a lot of reasons to miss it too.


So, school is over now and I've come home. As expected I was so relieved at first. No more showering with flip-flops, no more listening to screaming girls running up and down the hall, and a space that is mine and mine alone. But after a week or so of being back, there are a few things I've already started to miss.

I know that not every single person has the ideal roommate but I got really lucky with mine. Coming home I was excited to have my own space, but now when I'm doing my midnight scrolling, I'm realizing that I miss being able to talk to her about the funny things I see in that very moment. Tagging, DMing, and texting her doesn't feel the same as a long night of giggles spent together.

Also, while seeing old friends when you get home is amazing, and there is always a lot to catch up on, you do start to miss your other friends too. Being in college means that your friends are going through similar things as you are all the time. You have tests together, clubs together, and sometimes you spend way too much time procrastinating together. The bond you begin to form is one you definitely begin to miss - especially when you guys don't live close off of campus.

Coming home also means you don't have a set schedule or at least not immediately. You may come back to a previous job and that puts something on your calendar, but the free time you still have during the week can be a little too much. I know I've spent way too much time obsessing over the Tati/James drama than I ever would have at school. The routine I had at school kept me busy and entertained, and I'm honestly missing it a lot right now.

There are a lot of other things to miss too - even things you thought you wouldn't. You miss the classes, the teachers, and sometimes the food. I know I miss the environment. It isn't a perfect one, but it's full of people just trying to find their way. We are all working through the roller coaster of life and we are all stuck on one beautiful campus together while we figure it all out. I miss meeting new people at the bus stops or running into old classmates and catching up.

I guess the bonus for me is that I just finished sophomore year which means I have more time to spend at school. Come senior year, I guess I'll have to learn quickly how to deal without the things I miss - and also create a schedule so I can travel to see all of my friends, but those are all problems for future me.

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