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5 Thoughts You've Had If You Have A Summer Job
The dilemma of a summer job.
03 June 2019
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Summer jobs are great but let's be real, these are the thoughts that go through your head.
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The dilemma of a summer job.
Summer jobs are great but let's be real, these are the thoughts that go through your head.
"Fear no longer because Pinterest-yet again-has an answer for all your problems."
With being recently engaged, I'm super excited to ask my favorite ladies to stand beside me when I say, "I do." Because I'm an art major, I really am wanting to make the way I ask them, super creative and sentimental. I think all of them know me to be when I want actually want to, so I'm sure they're expecting something sweet.
If you're also struggling with how to ask because you're like me and wanting to make it cute...fear no longer because Pinterest-yet again-has an answer for all your problems.
All of my future bridesmaids love wine, so I definitely considered going that route. What's a cuter way to say BE IN MY WEDDING than a box filled with wine and other goodies?
Get something for every sense!
A cute note that touches their hearts,
A bottle of wine that tastes like deliciousness.
A candle to warm their nose.
A mix CD of songs that ya'll loved listening to, together.
Maybe a shade of their favorite nail polish or lipstick?
Seriously you can't go wrong, and there's at least SOMETHING in there your bridesmaid will be ecstatic about.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AQe_yxOA6C1verLzndsZ...
If you're wanting to dig a little deeper and do something more personalized (which is always nice too), you could also try this.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/110056784623044670/
I am the personalized gift giver girl. I want everyone to know that my friends are my friends for DIFFERENT reasons. Two of my bridesmaids have known me since I was a newborn. While the other two were my elementary best friends, and the other two I had the honor of meeting later in my adult life. They all are close to me for really special reasons, and if that's important to me, I'm sure it's also important to them.
A decorative box is always sweet because them having to open it gives a certain surprise twist to this already amazing honor. Fill that box with everything your bridesmaids love. My MOH loves her fur baby, is a dental hygienist, and was the first person to give me baby tampons when I got my period (That I still have btw). Think back to memories you had with your best gal's, and incorporate that with the way you ask them. I think it'll not only make the process more special, but it'll be a hell of a lot easier because you clearly know them all so well.
Next is one of my favorites because I'M OBSESSED WITH BAGS. Like the box idea, you can fill this with anything your bridesmaids love, but this is just a bit different because you're giving them a purse that they can actually use in the future vs a box that'll probably end up being tossed somewhere and forgotten about. I have seen a few customized bags recently and am starting to become obsessed with the idea.
Even after your big day, your bridesmaids can still be reminded of you by the purse, and that thought makes me happy.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AVNnS1FUBxRcgRYwZUBJ...
If you're looking for something a bit simpler, a rustic picture frame is the way to go. If I was going to do this, I'd most likely put a picture of myself and one of my bridesmaids in it just so this is something they could hang up and wouldn't have to explain to people who haven't seen the movie. It's for sure a really cute way to ask, and completely cost effective.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AVdHtx7Fv8GxEJmXyRun...
I'm obsessed with these "Tie the knot" bracelets. I think they hold such a beautiful yet subtle message. It makes me super happy knowing that on the day I get married all of my bridesmaids could be wearing these to support me.
Though it's a cute gift, I think packaging is what will sell this to your girls.
Maybe find a mason jar big enough to fit this bracelet in and fill it with white cotton balls (to represent that white wedding) and under the lid of the mason jar say "Will you help me tie the knot?".
I think it's a really clever and special way to get your girls involved in your big day.
And who doesn't love bracelets?
For this last one, I really found it important to include for all ya'll beauties who will be gaining a future sister(s). I, myself, am and am overly excited because I've never had one before! Let the clothes stealing begin. In all seriousness, I love this saying and it's super easy to incorporate it on anything. As far as personalization goes, you can buy a decorative box at Michael's for 5 bucks, paint it a pretty color, and print this bad boy out and paste it on there somehow.
No matter how you ask your girls, they're going to be so damn happy you chose them to stand by your side. I know even though my ladies are anticipating something creative from me, none of them would be offended if I sent them a simple text or made a quick phone call.
That's why they're my best friends.
P.S. Girls, expect something cute because that's what you're getting!
We're taught by older generations that we always have to work twice as hard to get half as far as white peers.
First things first I want to tell you what Imposter Syndrome is not. I know there are plenty of articles that discuss self-confidence through body image but I can guarantee you that's not what I'm talking about here. That could be another article for another day, perhaps. It's also not just a feeling of "oh, dang, I could've done that better" or "I wish I'd done that differently." It must also be noted that this is less of an actual disorder and more of a condition if you will.
What Imposter Syndrome actually is is feeling like nothing you accomplish is actually worth anything and that everything you've achieved is because of luck, not because of the work you put into it. It's always feeling like you're going to be exposed or found out for not actually being as intelligent or successful as you seem or as you say you are.
But how does this manifest in everyday life you ask? Well, of course, I am here to provide some examples.
Whenever I have a project due in one of my journalism classes, I make sure to listen to the instructions when it's being introduced. I always go back and read over the syllabus when completing my projects. I take the tips and tricks into account. I follow all of the guidelines I was given and I always try to put my best foot forward. Yet, I still always feel like I'm doing everything incorrectly or that I'm forgetting something. I feel like no matter what my professor is going to hate it and I'm going to get a bad grade.
Or it can manifest as whenever I try to apply for a job I have a hard time describing my skills or past work experience because I feel like I haven't really done anything relevant. I also don't really feel like I have many skills if any. I always remember that someone is going to have more experience or a better portfolio or a better resume. Whenever I remember that it can leave me feeling inadequate and like I don't belong. Like everyone else is a hireable employee and like I'm a poser.
I think this has a lot to do with the fact that, as a woman, you're socialized to put other people's needs and wants before your own whether that be celebrating other people's accomplishments or helping other people bounce back from failure. But you never really gain the skills to be that same support for yourself, at least not without years of work and undoing the internalized misogyny you've faced. Also because we've been socialized this way it can leave you feeling like you don't deserve anything good because the people around you haven't gotten there's yet. And that can be extremely difficult to break through.
As for people of color, because we're taught by older generations that we always have to work twice as hard to get half as far as white peers, we're always so used to exerting so much energy. But the moment you actually get recognized for your hard work can be jarring because you might feel like you weren't working as hard you could be and don't deserve it. Or that you got lucky this time but soon everyone is gonna find out the truth and you're gonna be exposed as a fraud or an underachiever.
Mother knows best.
In our lives, mothers play a role which can't be put into words. Her place in our hearts and everywhere is special and different. As children, our relationship with her is unique as we love her endlessly but our love can't be compared with hers, which goes to extremes and is unconditional.
Today, I am living my dream and following my passion, all because of the sacrifices my mother made for me. She is the one who taught me the meaning of discipline, hard work, and respect. I have never come across any individual in my entire life who is as hardworking as she is. When I was in school, she was the one who used to stay awake with me during my exams so that I could study and not fall asleep. She was so concerned that even though at times she was tired, she could actually not fall asleep until I was done with the studies.
She is the best person to vent to and offers me the best advice along with the personal anecdotes which are both funny and calming. She taught me from being an empathetic human to learning how to be bold and ask for what you deserve. When I hear her childhood experiences, I feel proud that she has always been this hardworking and a competent individual who was not only the best at the studies but also managed her childhood so well even without a mother. Today she is a working mother who is a multitasker and does everything with perfection.
I came to New York last year for my higher studies and my life completely changed, except for one thing: it's my mother who wakes me up in the morning. We are miles apart but a call from her every morning is a part of my daily routine.
It's true that we can never count our mother's activities. Every mother works 24/7 for her family and children which is like a career in itself. Without my mother, I wouldn't be the person I am today. She's always been there, since the day I was born and has worked unimaginably hard in order for me to have the best life.
I am proud of her and I am grateful to have her in my life. Here's wishing all the mothers a very happy Mother's Day.
"She loves wholeheartedly."
Part of a mom's job is to support her children, and my mom does this SO well. Seriously, she did not miss a single athletic event or awards ceremony. She always sends me encouragement during hard times or when I'm stressed about school. She seriously does SO much for me that I don't even think I'd be able to explain it all no matter how hard I try.
So with Mother's Day being right around the corner, I felt it appropriate to turn the tables and honor her for all she is and all she does. I love you momma.
She is such an amazing woman of God. I am so blessed to have a mother with a heart constantly chasing after God and His Will.
No matter what is thrown her way or what she is faced with, she remains persistent, always trusting in God's plan.
Seriously, I'm not sure how one woman can do so much. AND do it all so well.
She has such a big heart for others that she always puts aside her problems to be there for loved ones.
Again... selfless.
No matter what she puts her mind to, she is not stopping until the task is completed.
You know how sometimes when you have something going on in your life and a friend says "I'll be praying for you" but you don't really feel like they are? Well, I can guarantee that's NOT my mother. She cares so much for others and will cover you in prayer. In fact, she probably already is and you just don't know it.
This is so much easier said than done, but she surrenders her life to God in life's hardest times.
I didn't say smart here because smart just makes me think "book smart" but my mom is so much more than that. She is extremely intelligent.
She gives people the benefit of the doubt, but also knows when enough is enough.
This really sums everything else up in one point... when she cares about someone, she doesn't just give half of herself to the friendship. She is all in. She 110% cares for you. She covers you in prayer.
Mom, I know this list only has 11 points, but please know that I am SO PROUD to be your daughter. You are the most amazing role model, best friend, and mother.
Happy Mother's Day. I love you!
No matter what you are doing in your day-to-day life, there is a film score for you!
Full transparency: film music is my life. It is one of my greatest passions in life, and I am almost always listening to it. Whether I'm studying, driving, taking a shower or just hanging out, chances are I am listening to a film score. It is not a genre just for people who are avid movie-goers or lovers of classical music, it is a genre for everyone.
One of my favorite times to put on a good film score is when I study. There is something relaxing and motivating about film music, and it has helped me get through many nights finishing a project or cramming for an exam. So, here are 10 film scores to listen to while you study.
This song will make you think more about the universe and your place in it. I especially recommend this score if you are studying science or math. You will feel like a damn genius.
This music is whimsical, melodious and peaceful. I highly recommend it.
This Harry Potter score in particular has an awesome Celtic feel. Be sure to listen to "A Window to the Past."
This film is about a famous mathematician, so I would suggest this score for any STEM related studies.
This score is beautiful and sweet, and would make perfect background music for reading a textbook or doing research.
This is a cool score because it is both epic and sensitive. It will make you feel like a superhero while also giving you a sense of calm while you work.
If you are studying French or if you like anything Parisian, this is the score for you.
This is one of the most beautiful scores I've ever heard in my life. It is sweeping, epic and mysterious. It would be great for science homework.
Like "The Imitation Game," this score will make you feel super smart while you listen to it.
This is a wonderfully quirky score to listen to. It's quite artsy, so it might go well with some literature or history work.