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13 Ways To Survive Valentines Day When You're Single

"I think it's very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not defined by another person." - Oscar Wilde

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Valentine's day doesn't have to be a day of anti-love for the single people out there. Love is not defined to a relationship, so enjoy the day with friends and family.

Go out with friends

Friends are always going to be there for you, and there's no doubt you probably have one or two single acquaintances out there. Get a group together and go out, enjoy the day with the people you care about.

Watch a movie

This can be a movie at the theater (though there will be plenty of couples or one at home. You can go out with friends and do it alone, but either way, it's something to get your mind off of the day.

Have a self-care night

Start a bubble bath, put on a face mask, pour yourself a glass of wine and relax. It's always nice to treat yourself, but this day is perfect for it. For a holiday that's all about spreading love, do a little something for yourself.

Do everything you can to distract yourself

If you really are struggling with being single, then go out an do activities that will make you forget. You could also stay in and spend the day watching movies so your mind is always preoccupied, or play a board game with your friends. Honestly, the options are endless.

Spread the love to friends and family

Valentines day isn't only just for couples, it's also for anyone that you love. It's for friends and family, so show them some love and do something nice for them. They will surely appreciate it.

Watch cheesy rom-com's

It's a fun and easy way to laugh off the pain or boredom, so find a good list online and pop some popcorn while you watch the awkward interactions between the C.E.O and a barista.

Watch horror movies

If you want something a little less romantic and cheesy, go for a good horror film. It will take your mind off of anything that involves love.

Stuff your face with love themed candy

You can buy it the day of when it's full price, or you can wait the day after when it's all 50% off. Take advantage of the deals while you can.

Host a singles only party

Gather a bunch of people who are also single and do something fun! You could destroy Valentine's Day gifts, drink wine, watch movies, anything really.

 Hit the gym

Going to the gym is a good way to make yourself feel better, and hey, maybe you'll meet someone there as well. Anything is possible.

 Go out to the bar, alone or with a friend

If you do go to the bar, be careful and be ready to get hit on if you're alone. If you go out with friends, have as much fun as you can and enjoy the night.

 Buy a furry friend

Okay, if this is a split second decision or you don't think you will be able to take care of the pet for the rest of its life, don't follow this suggestion. If you do know you can give the animal the quality of life it needs, pets can be incredibly good for your health and sanity.

 Realize you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy

Work on yourself while you're single. You don't need to be with someone to feel complete and spend Valentine's Day focused on yourself or the friends and family around you. It's a day of love, but love comes in all forms.

A lot of people are in love with the idea of love, but we should practice self-love first. Enjoy Valentine's Day with your friends or yourself, and stop making it a day of sad thoughts.

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