Stop Asking Why There Isn't 'Straight Pride'
Start writing a post
Featured

Stop Asking Why There Isn't  'Straight Pride'

The first pride was a riot.

514
Stop Asking Why There Isn't  'Straight Pride'
Carley Felder

As most people know, June is known as Pride Month. Every year, this one in particular, I have noticed an increase of people all over social media asking, "If the gays get their own month to celebrate their pride, where is Straight Pride Month?"

These same people also seem to refuse to acknowledge the meaning behind the celebration due to ignorance or lack of information. So, with that being said, let me drop some knowledge for you to understand why we celebrate our pride all month.

On June 9, 2019, the city of Philadelphia held its 31st Annual Pride Parade. Its theme was Stonewall 50, in honor of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots in New York City. The riots started when NYPD raided the Stonewall Inn on June 28, 1969, and used force to pull out patrons of the gay bar, which had been a place of refuge for the LGBTQ+ community.

During the '60s, solicitation of same-sex relations was illegal, and in New York City, there was a criminal statute that allowed police to arrest people who were wearing less than three gender-appropriate articles of clothing. People of the LGBTQ+ community sought out gay bars as a refuge, knowing that they were safe in those four walls to be whoever they wanted to be, dress how they wanted to dress, and most importantly, love who they want to love.

The riots lasted for roughly five days in front of the Stonewall Inn. The Stonewall Riots were not the starting point of the LGBTQ+ Right movement, but it is what kickstarted the fight towards equality.

Now, 50 years later, people who identify anywhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum can freely love whomever they wish in the United States. Thanks to a ruling in 2015, gay marriage is now legal in all states and is protected by the Constitution.

I can't sit here and say that I have always known about the Stonewall Riots and the history that the LGBTQ+ community has. In fact, I didn't know anything about it until after I came out to my friends and family. It was only after I had accepted that I was gay that I took the time to do some research about what my fellow people have gone through.

Today, the people of the LGBTQ+ community and allies alike take to the streets in cities across the country to show their love and support by decorating floats, dressing up, and proudly waving various pride flags. Different companies and organizations participate in these parades to let people know that they stand with them.

So, unless you've been threatened by the general population for who you love, been harassed by authorities for how you identify or been told that because you don't fit the norms of what men and women "should" be, you are no longer welcome to fight and protect this country, then no. You don't get to ask where the straight pride is.

This is not the month of shoving our sexuality in your face. It is the month that shines light on where we came from, where we are going, and why we will never stop fighting for the same equalities as the straight men and women in the world.

If there is only one thing you take away, let it be this: Remember that the first pride was a riot.

Report this Content
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

71266
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

133390
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments