Ladies, listen up. It's time for us to stop complaining about being single. Being single doesn't mean you aren't good enough. Being single doesn't mean you are ugly or unimportant. Being single just means you are smart enough to wait for the right guy.

I am constantly asked the question, "Do you have a boyfriend?" And I used to sink my shoulders and reply with a sad, "No." But now, I reply more confidently because I know I don't need a guy in my life to make me happy and that's something every girl should realize. Being in a relationship doesn't automatically make you happier. It takes work and constant effort to keep a good relationship and I know I'm not where I need to be to do that. A lot of girls don't realize this and jump into relationships when they aren't ready.

We need to take a stand and be independent. Sure, every once in a while I think, "I wish I had a boyfriend," but then, five minutes later, I realize I really do not want another person in my life to worry about. Being single means that it is time for you to find yourself and build yourself up to be able to be in a relationship someday. It's not a bad thing to focus on yourself for a change.

There will always be guys, but you won't always have the chance to focus on you and your needs. So, I say to you, stop looking for that perfect guy; he will show up someday at the right time. But for now, enjoy the single life and being yourself. Go out with the girls and don't tie yourself down if you are not ready to. Find a new hobby or do something simply for your own good. Enjoy being you and focus on all the amazing things you are!