Steven Sudell Taught Me So Much About Life

Dear #18, I Will Carry Your Name With Honor And Pride

You taught me that cancer sucks, but it's how you learn from it that matters.


As a cheer coach for a little league team in my town, I have taught many lessons to many little girls. Whether those lessons entailed how to properly put their hair up in high ponytails or how to deal with the eighth grade mean girls, they have definitely learned from me.

But, none of the lessons I've taught will ever amount to the lesson that Steven Sudell has taught the entire town of Greenwich.

Steven Sudell is a 14-year-old boy who has terminal cancer. But the words "terminal cancer" are not stopping him from enjoying his days here with us. With the nickname "The Tank," he is showing us how strong he really is by keeping a smile on his face through all the pain he endures. He keeps the laughs rolling through his many photos in which he flips off cancer — showing us all that, yes, he has cancer, but it will not keep his spirits down.

Steven has not only taught me that you never know what the next day will bring, but he has taught me that you have to roll with the punches. Steven's battle with cancer has not been a pretty one in the slightest. But whenever I heard any reports about how he was doing, they were always accompanied by, "Steven is pushing through and fighting his hardest."

At 13 years old, I do not think I could have had such a positive outlook on such a shitty situation.

Although I may not have personally coached Steven, I am such a proud member of the Maverick organization. I know that we all will drop what we are doing at any moment to make sure it is all about the kids. Through Steven's battle with cancer, I learned that it is not always about me or what I am doing.

Life is about enjoying the time that you have with your family on Earth — because you never know when it will be taken away from you.

Steven's mother posts on Facebook periodically, updating her friends about how he is doing. I always look forward to seeing his smiling face and reading the story that goes along with the post.

So Steven, although you may never see this, I want you to know how much you have touched my heart. You've taught me so many lessons. You taught me how to live life to the fullest. You taught me that, no matter what, you have to smile through the pain. You taught me that you can't sweat the small things because there are bigger problems in this world.

You taught me that cancer sucks, but it's how you learn from it that matters. You taught me that you can do anything if you put your mind to it.

Your perseverance through your battle has taught me that, no matter how shitty the situation is, there is always brightness in the darkness.

The town of Greenwich will always remember Steven Sudell as the one who emphasized kindness through the painted rocks, but I will always remember him as #18, "The Tank."

Amy Sudell

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9 Reasons You're Still In Love With Tim Riggins In 2019

Clear eyes. Full hearts.

If you're a Friday Night Lights fan, you know very well who Tim Riggins is. And if you've never seen the show, he's basically just the bad boy football star and sensitive hottie of your dreams, all wrapped into one heart-throbbing package. If you haven't already fallen under the Tim Riggins spell, you're about to...

1. He's the star running back of the Dillon Panthers.

Basically every girl who has walked this earth has fantasized about having that cliche football relationship. No shame. #33 on the field, #1 in my heart.

2. He's actually really sensitive.

Tim Riggins may seem hard and dysfunctional on the outside, but he's really just a big softie. He's no JD McCoy, who grew up lavishly and extremely fortunate; Tim had a rough upbringing. He and his brother, Billy, had to work hard all by themselves just to stay above water, which is most likely what keeps him so grounded and humbled.

3. He loves kids.

Tim didn't even think twice about taking his neighbor under his wing when he moved in next door. And for some reason, there's just somethin' about cute boys holding babies that makes us girls swoon.

4. He's genuine and honest.

Sure, maybe he took advantage of his football-star status and slept with most of the rally girls, but once he fell in love with Lyla we saw his compassionate side. (You probably envied Lyla and maybe even hated her for a while because of it...I know I did.)

5. He knows how to have a good time.

It's 5 o'clock somewhere.

6. He's a family man.

Tim took the blame for his brother's crime and went to prison for it...if that's not loyalty then I don't know what is.

7. He's affectionate.

If you either hate Lyla or you want to be Lyla or a combination of the both, you are not alone.

8. He's protective.

Probably the only time you've ever wanted to be in a tornado was when you watched the episode where he shielded Julie from flying debris.

9. He's beautiful.

You're welcome for blessing you with this GIF.

May you all find your own Tim Riggins. Amen.

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