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Staying True to Yourself in College

Don't let the fear of missing out turn you into someone you're not.

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Staying True to Yourself in College
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Now that another school year has begun and we’ve started to make our new routines, many students find themselves struggling to determine who they want to be and what they want to achieve this year. For incoming freshmen, they’re figuring out where they fit on campus and the types of people they want to associate themselves with while also balancing their new academic workload. And in the first few weeks of college, it can be easy to lose yourself in it all. There’s always so much going on; frat parties, house parties, club meetings, football games, classes, labs, socials, and professor/student meet and greets -- you name it. If you’re like me you’ll find yourself trying to do everything and please everyone -- including those people you met at orientation that you like but would never be friends with normally.

It’s a difficult and confusing time, but the key to happiness in college is to stay true to yourself. Even when you’re not entirely certain who you may be or what you want to do, stick to your guns and your morals. There will always be peer pressure, and the fear of missing out is 100% a real thing, so it’s up to you to be your own voice of reason. You can’t do everything no matter how much you’d like to, so prioritize the activities and people you like the most and go from there. And always remember that it’s OK to have free time. Rest is essential, so don’t overextend yourself to the point where you don’t have time to care of your physical and mental health.

And don't be scared if you don't find your people immediately! The first few weeks are always awkward and uncertain, so take your time when it comes to making friends and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. It's not a race -- and friendship has a way of popping up in the most random of places, so don't worry if it takes time. You'll find your niche on campus eventually. Just remember to get involved (but not too involved), be social when you feel like it, rest often, and have fun!

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