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Staying Classy

Since when did Kim Kardashian become our idea of "classy"?

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In this day and age, a "classy" woman is portrayed a s sexy figure who flaunts herself to receive attention from every boy at the party/bar/club. I see the stereotype of a perfect woman in the movies and on TV and I feel ashamed. Femininity is being shown as something that is scandalous and vulgar when in reality it is not. Our generation has lost the meaning of the word "class", and we've lost the true value of what being a lady is all about. I have listed 10 traits of a truly classic woman.

1. A woman with class speaks with dignity. She does not speak with vulgar language. Instead, she controls her tongue. I struggle with this so much; it's a harder chore than it sounds. [Proverbs 31:26 - She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.]

2. A woman with class dresses tastefully. She dresses well and works for what she has. She is modest in her attire, being mindful that the world does not revolve around her presence. [Proverbs 31:22 - She makes bed coverings for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple.]

3. A classy woman is gentle. She remembers her place in the world, and does not elevate herself above others to degrade them. The truly classy woman will understand that kindness is more valuable than any materialistic thing this world can offer. She assists those in need, and doesn't hesitate to lend a hand where she can. [Proverbs 31:20 - She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy.]

4. A woman with class has a good reputation. First impressions last a long time. I know i haven't made some good ones over the past few years, but how you are known matters. A real woman will be well known for the right reasons. Her family will see her working and realize that she is a blessing; they will understand that she is helpful and knowledgable. [Proverbs 31:29 - Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.]

5. A classy woman works hard. She doesn't slack off. She realizes that hard work is essential to accomplishing goals, and she doesn't rest until she has what she wants. A classy woman doesn't sit around; she is a doer. [Proverbs 31:27 - She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.]

6. A woman with class takes advantage of each day. She realizes that she has a limited amount of time to accomplish her goals; she lives each day to the fullest. [Proverbs 31:15 - She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens.]

7. A classy woman knows her worth, but doesn't force it on people. She knows she has qualities, but allows people to discover her values for themselves. She is humble and modest, and allows time to show her beauty. [Proverbs 31:10 - An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels."

8. A woman with class is educated. She is filled with knowledge and perception. She cannot be tricked or fooled. She knows what she's talking about, and she doesn't try to act bigger than she is. She works and studies hard, making sure she knows her business inside and out. [Proverbs 31:18 - She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night.]

9. A classy woman is trustworthy. Her husband/significant other sees her value, and trusts her. She does not flaunt herself to other men. She is his partner, and helps him just as much as he helps her. He is not ashamed of her; he is proud to call her his own. [Proverbs 31:11 - The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.]

10. A woman with true class will fear God. having beauty and wit and charisma is not the most important thing about being a woman. Having the most likes on a photo is not the most important thing about being a woman. A classy woman will understand and realize that God is the giver of all good. She will respect the Lord and do His will, no questions asked. [Proverbs 31:30 - Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.]

These 10 characteristics are all found in the Word. If that doesn't tell you anything about being a true woman, I don't know what does. Instead of relying on a celebrity to be the classy woman, what if all women strove to be images of Christ-loving women as in Proverbs 31? To find the image of class that our generation seems to have lost, we merely have to open God's word and see for ourselves.

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