The normal path that American society presumes for young adults is that upon graduating high school, they pick a major and continue on to matriculate out four years later with a college degree. This path, however, isn't always realistic. Some people just aren't ready for higher education at age 18, 19 or even 25. Some people (like myself) aren't ready for college until over age 35. For me, it was 38 when I began my college education. Now at age 47 I've recently completed a Master's program. Was it worth it? Yes! Here's why:
Appreciation - Adults in general have a greater appreciation for school. I hated high school. It was boring, and I viewed it as punishment. (Yes I was a brat.) Entering college for the first time at age 38 however, I was excited. I appreciated the process; add to that the fact that I was paying for it therefore I knew I'd better apply myself.
No Peer Pressure - let's face it, peer pressure is a real thing especially during the teen years and also as young adults. Becoming a college student at age 38 my "peers" were young enough to be my kids. Believe me, there was no pressure.
No Fear - An adult student brings life experience to the classroom and with that usually brings with it a fearless student. If my teacher didn't agree with my perspective — Big Deal! Who Cares?!? I'm entitled to my own opinion! At 18, I wouldn't have been as fearless.
Sense of Accomplishment - Outside of raising my kids and watching them succeed, the best feeling I've ever had was walking across a stage in a large arena receiving recognition for completing a Bachelor's degree by University leadership. I did it! I earned a four-year degree that would always be mine and mine alone.
Security - Recently, I completed a Master's Degree. My educational journey has seen me through a lot of personal challenges and trauma, but ultimately it has given me a sense of security. Security is knowing that if I do the work, put forth the effort and put in the time, I can do anything!
So, to the adult out there contemplating a return to school, DO IT! You can do it and you won't regret it!
