It's A Part Of Life To Have Those 'You're Just Somebody That I Used To Know'

It's A Part Of Life To Have Those 'You're Just Somebody That I Used To Know'

The real reason why people come in and out of our lives.


To the person, I once called my best friend,

Not one dull moment was experienced when we were together. We could make the most boring times the highlight of our week. We may have frequently stumbled into a few awkward moments, but ended them all by creating laughter and joy out of it. Our favorite word to hear was "adventure" because we lived for that rush we got when exploring somewhere new. You were my go-to girl when I had to make what I thought to be the biggest decisions in my life. We were each other's shoulder to cry on through the bad days, and one another's biggest supporter during the good days. When people saw me, they expected to see you too. We were a package deal, neither of us got left behind.

Going into my senior year, I didn't know who you were or that you even existed. But thinking back nowadays, I couldn't imagine what my life would've been like without knowing you. We pushed each other to try new things and toward new possibilities, which is why our friendship was so strong.

We came from two different types of worlds, and I believe this to be one of the many reasons why our friendship grew so fast. I realized how tough life could get sometimes, even with just being in high school. A lot of the times we felt like we were carrying the whole world on our shoulders.

I always knew when you were having an off day, and I tried my best to help take some of that weight off your shoulders, but there comes a point when all I could do was be there for you.

My purpose for writing this is not to make you miss me or to remanence on all our good times we had together, but actually to make you think and see how different our lives would be today if we had not met.

You were more than a best friend to me. I thought of you as my sister. And the word sister very well defines the relationship we had with each other because we did get into MANY fights. You know as well as I do how true this is. But, at the end of every day, fight or no fight, we still knew deep down that we could never lose one another... and I still believe this.

One of the best reasons I can think of why having you as my best friend changed my life, is because I always saw God working in you. God working through you made me into a better person and made my relationship with Him stronger, and I am forever grateful for that.

Like I've said before, we all have a purpose in this life, and maybe we were only meant to pass through each other's lives for a short period of time. Or maybe we will reconnect again in the future and have an even better friendship than we did in the past. No one really knows, except for the Big Man upstairs.

I believed this letter was needed to be said to you.

The phrase that says, "people come and go in life" is very true, but it is what we learn from those people after they leave that is most important.

I hope that our futures may reconnect us again someday. You will continue to always be a very important person in my life.

Thank you for always being there to share and create some of the best memories with me.

They will never ever be forgotten.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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The best things about your girl friends.


Social media is so deceiving lately, always posting about relationship goals or get yourself a man like this. Honestly, I'm tired of it and why don't we hear more about our girls? LET'S BE REAL! It's hard to be absolutely yourself around a boy, for it takes some time to break down those walls and really get comfortable with each other.

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There is always that unspoken rule or constant animosity when texting a boy. When it comes to girls, there are no rules. I always love waking up in the morning and texting my group chats to see who is either down for breakfast, a study session, or just to check in to make sure everyone is alive. You can text and little and as much as you want and not break a sweat.

2. Unconditional Love

Whenever I'm getting ready for a big interview or for a special event, I always look to my friends for approval. Not only do they know what's in my closet and may suggest a better clothing item they really care about putting my best foot forward and telling me if I look my best in whatever I choose to wear. Sometimes the truth is something people avoid to share because they are afraid to offend someone, but friends will love you no matter what and just want you to be happy.

3. Movie binge

I always love Friday nights. My friends and I have made little traditions of gaining out to dinner, getting our favorite snacks, and picking a movie or Netflix show to binge on. Usually, we all go off topic and get deep into conversation and dance around like complete fools, but these are the memories I will cherish the most about college.

4. Girls squads

Personally, I feel more confident when I am surrounded by my friends whoever we go out to have fun. When you share a common interest of either singing as loud as you can taking a good car ride or just need a dance partner that you can bust a move on the dance floor, having your friends by your side makes every night that much more fun.

5. The good and the bad

It would be a fairytale if friendships were always peaches, but reality is... girls have their fights. Sometimes usually it always surrounds little things because we spend so much time together. The important thing about having healthy friendships is being open and communicate how you feel. Usually, little things get resolved and life moves on. If it is not a fight between each other your friends are there for you when your down or just not feeling your best. We need each other through college to stay and finish strong.

6. The best side kick

Maybe it is just me, but I love when my friends are down for anything like going shopping, getting food, going to the gym, and getting nails done. My friends and I are so close you would think we are related and I am so happy to have such great gals in my life that push me to be the best person I can be!

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